"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How late is too late to call/text a girl after getting her number?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
But I dont understand the rushing.
'omg im so interested in you that i must contact you within 24 hours or else you will forget me and i really really dont want to take that risk please go out with me'.
Wait a few days, call them when you feel like it. Why are you so insecure that they will lose interest?
but yes play it with your own style.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
playerone
Senior Don Juan
I appreciate your input but i never said i didn't have anything to do outside of talking to women. I live my life and women are just a part of it, i never shift course or go out of my way for them. I was just curious to know how different guys handled the calling/texting of women after getting digits. Pure curiosity but thxItsTheAttitude said:
I also called one girl the day after. nothing wrong and she's still interested.
Just call when you have time. Girls and dating is about having fun, not about being perfect. as long as you don't come off as a needy clinging baby then you should be straight to call whenever you want
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The wait a couple days rule is Sh1t. Call when you have time to talk.
I actually read somewhere that the 3 days rule is BS because in the beginning you should work getting to know the girl and making a move. You might think it makes you seem all important and "Scarce" if you wait a couple days to call, but she's really not gonna care about how scarce or busy a guy is if she barely knows him. She won't worry about a man too much that she just met.
and no she won't be wondering why you haven't called. If she's an attractive woman then she has a lot of options anyway, that's why you have to move.
That of course is their opinion. But I agree with it
Call whenever you want. Dating is not some complex Medical Procedure