That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You must have extremely low standards.so many perfect looking pics... you start to think every girl there is a model (except fat ones obviously)
do they edit pictures somehow or its the make up?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
yes because that will SURELY happen LOLThere are so many bad pics ...
But still they can get away with it.
They always say dont where sungalsses i lough my ass of everytime they have a pic with sungalsses.
It is so double standard cause guys just swipe right every ****ing time.
We should ignore bad pics just swipe left if every dude would do this instead of ego boosting whales and stuff **** would get better.
Maybe you are just horny? ;-)do they edit pictures somehow or its the make up?
Photoshop. Some were taken when they were young. Also, dont be fooled. I know women who take 6 photos & upload the cutest one.so many perfect looking pics... you start to think every girl there is a model (except fat ones obviously)
do they edit pictures somehow or its the make up?
Such an entertaining and rewarding way to spend timePhotoshop. Some were taken when they were young. Also, dont be fooled. I know women who take 6 photos & upload the cutest one.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
There's a lot of apps, filters, and women take a billion only to post their hot pics.so many perfect looking pics... you start to think every girl there is a model (except fat ones obviously)
do they edit pictures somehow or its the make up?
That is all Women do that are age 22-29. I made a study of it for myself.Such an entertaining and rewarding way to spend time
You said: total whale;I don't think you realize how much of a difference makeup and edited/selective photos can have. I've only used Tinder for a very brief period of time, and from what I've seen it's predominately made up of less than attractive women. If the profile is purely face shots, with no full body pictures, it's highly likely she is fat. Granted, sometimes you can tell if a girl is fat just by looking at her face.....but there are women who can have a normal face and be a total whale, it's almost mind boggling. Also a lot of single moms on there, some are pretty upfront about it and mention it.
Honestly, I'd put more effort into meeting women in the real world and not put too much emphasis on tinder or online dating sites.