"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How is it not worth it to date a girl who is less physically attractive but ticks all the other boxes?

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IG model = not a model. A model is a girl who works for a model agency and has signed a contract.
Yep exactly. As entitled as agency models are they’re nowhere near as entitled as IG models. Agency models are at least doing it for the fashion as opposed to showing off their ass so they can get thirsty dudes to follow them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes I agree, but same story with women of my age (or age range 26-30). If I look at the guys I study with (19-21), I would guess that 75% are virgin. Dating has changed, a lot, but yes I'm older and it plays against me. The perfect age range for me was 25-30.
Status is important but not that much, money is. You can have status but no money, but usually when you have money you have some kind of "status".
True, money is very much correlated to lifestyle, which is status in a nutshell. Focus on making money and the rest of attraction is easy. You’re building your life, if a chick decides to come along then great! If not, there will be one that follows suit. Having ‘game’ is not a bag of tricks. Women sniff that out. Don’t try to match personalities, have them them align with yours
 
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