"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How is it not worth it to date a girl who is less physically attractive but ticks all the other boxes?

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IG model = not a model. A model is a girl who works for a model agency and has signed a contract.
Yep exactly. As entitled as agency models are they’re nowhere near as entitled as IG models. Agency models are at least doing it for the fashion as opposed to showing off their ass so they can get thirsty dudes to follow them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yes I agree, but same story with women of my age (or age range 26-30). If I look at the guys I study with (19-21), I would guess that 75% are virgin. Dating has changed, a lot, but yes I'm older and it plays against me. The perfect age range for me was 25-30.
Status is important but not that much, money is. You can have status but no money, but usually when you have money you have some kind of "status".
True, money is very much correlated to lifestyle, which is status in a nutshell. Focus on making money and the rest of attraction is easy. You’re building your life, if a chick decides to come along then great! If not, there will be one that follows suit. Having ‘game’ is not a bag of tricks. Women sniff that out. Don’t try to match personalities, have them them align with yours
 
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