"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How important is Music in changing your inner self?.

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Ok so i have this theory, yeah it's a weird theory which goes like this.

I listen to alot of dance,pop and general cheese music...which are great an all...but i can't help but think it doesn't help my inner self to deal with my fear of approach.

What if i started to listen to rock...heavy hardcore music...maybe that will change me inside from abit of a wuss (Caring what people think and what people's opinions are of me)....to a someone who doesn't care?.

I mean afterall, music is a strong tool in changing one self.

Anyone think that listening to too much women, girly music will turn them more feminem?

-Malachi
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dont let the music u listen to define u, u gotta define the music u listen to

thats deep **** right there nigga:up:
 

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So you're going to fake your music tastes? Listening to pop music and cheesy electronic music can only mean one thing. You live superficially, go after superficial girls so you can leave the more real girls for the rest of us.

You know the Shezzler, he's just that type. He's like a in your face used car salesman, he keeps assuming he will close the deal even if you give out your fake number, fake name, etc. In about 10-15 years from now, he's just gonna be one of those balding fat pot belly "DJs" that still thinks he can close a deal.
 

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It doesn't matter what type of music you listen to, its what you GET out of the music you listen to. If the type of music you listen to makes you feel depressed and angry at yourself, then thats not good music! However, if it makes you feel elevated and worthwhile, then get more of that music!

My two cents on it.
 

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NHY said:
It doesn't what type of music you listen to, its what you GET out of the music you listen to. If the type of music you listen to makes you feel depressed and angry at yourself, then thats not good music! However, if it makes you feel elevated and worthwhile, then get more of that music!

My two cents on it.
yo thats what im sayin son

:nono: niggas jackin my answer
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Soprano said:
yo thats what im sayin son

:nono: niggas jackin my answer
Whoops, Sorry! And I'm not a nigga! :woo: :crackup:

On another note, if I haden't brought that copy of a a single called ' Nessja ' by a german called Scooter, I don't think I would be here today as I am. That track is what started my spirtual evolution to a more optumistic type 4 years ago.

Some songs can do that, change your entire mindset and how you feel about yourself in an instant, which makes you want to go out and change your entire life! ( Like I did ) It doesn't matter what track it is, others may laugh at you for it ( Nessja is a Techno track! ) but if it holds a specail place in your heart, then nothing else matters!
 

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NHY said:
Whoops, Sorry! And I'm not a nigga! :woo: :crackup:

On another note, if I haden't brought that copy of a a single called ' Nessja ' by a german called Scooter, I don't think I would be here today as I am. That track is what started my spirtual evolution to a more optumistic type 4 years ago.

Some songs can do that, change your entire mindset and how you feel about yourself in an instant, which makes you want to go out and change your entire life! ( Like I did ) It doesn't matter what track it is, others may laugh at you for it ( Nessja is a Techno track! ) but if it holds a specail place in your heart, then nothing else matters!

Spiritual evolution via eurotrash techno? :cry:
 
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