"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How important is Music in changing your inner self?.

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Ok so i have this theory, yeah it's a weird theory which goes like this.

I listen to alot of dance,pop and general cheese music...which are great an all...but i can't help but think it doesn't help my inner self to deal with my fear of approach.

What if i started to listen to rock...heavy hardcore music...maybe that will change me inside from abit of a wuss (Caring what people think and what people's opinions are of me)....to a someone who doesn't care?.

I mean afterall, music is a strong tool in changing one self.

Anyone think that listening to too much women, girly music will turn them more feminem?

-Malachi
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dont let the music u listen to define u, u gotta define the music u listen to

thats deep **** right there nigga:up:
 

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So you're going to fake your music tastes? Listening to pop music and cheesy electronic music can only mean one thing. You live superficially, go after superficial girls so you can leave the more real girls for the rest of us.

You know the Shezzler, he's just that type. He's like a in your face used car salesman, he keeps assuming he will close the deal even if you give out your fake number, fake name, etc. In about 10-15 years from now, he's just gonna be one of those balding fat pot belly "DJs" that still thinks he can close a deal.
 

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It doesn't matter what type of music you listen to, its what you GET out of the music you listen to. If the type of music you listen to makes you feel depressed and angry at yourself, then thats not good music! However, if it makes you feel elevated and worthwhile, then get more of that music!

My two cents on it.
 

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NHY said:
It doesn't what type of music you listen to, its what you GET out of the music you listen to. If the type of music you listen to makes you feel depressed and angry at yourself, then thats not good music! However, if it makes you feel elevated and worthwhile, then get more of that music!

My two cents on it.
yo thats what im sayin son

:nono: niggas jackin my answer
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Soprano said:
yo thats what im sayin son

:nono: niggas jackin my answer
Whoops, Sorry! And I'm not a nigga! :woo: :crackup:

On another note, if I haden't brought that copy of a a single called ' Nessja ' by a german called Scooter, I don't think I would be here today as I am. That track is what started my spirtual evolution to a more optumistic type 4 years ago.

Some songs can do that, change your entire mindset and how you feel about yourself in an instant, which makes you want to go out and change your entire life! ( Like I did ) It doesn't matter what track it is, others may laugh at you for it ( Nessja is a Techno track! ) but if it holds a specail place in your heart, then nothing else matters!
 

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NHY said:
Whoops, Sorry! And I'm not a nigga! :woo: :crackup:

On another note, if I haden't brought that copy of a a single called ' Nessja ' by a german called Scooter, I don't think I would be here today as I am. That track is what started my spirtual evolution to a more optumistic type 4 years ago.

Some songs can do that, change your entire mindset and how you feel about yourself in an instant, which makes you want to go out and change your entire life! ( Like I did ) It doesn't matter what track it is, others may laugh at you for it ( Nessja is a Techno track! ) but if it holds a specail place in your heart, then nothing else matters!

Spiritual evolution via eurotrash techno? :cry:
 
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