"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How important is Music in changing your inner self?.

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Ok so i have this theory, yeah it's a weird theory which goes like this.

I listen to alot of dance,pop and general cheese music...which are great an all...but i can't help but think it doesn't help my inner self to deal with my fear of approach.

What if i started to listen to rock...heavy hardcore music...maybe that will change me inside from abit of a wuss (Caring what people think and what people's opinions are of me)....to a someone who doesn't care?.

I mean afterall, music is a strong tool in changing one self.

Anyone think that listening to too much women, girly music will turn them more feminem?

-Malachi
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dont let the music u listen to define u, u gotta define the music u listen to

thats deep **** right there nigga:up:
 
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So you're going to fake your music tastes? Listening to pop music and cheesy electronic music can only mean one thing. You live superficially, go after superficial girls so you can leave the more real girls for the rest of us.

You know the Shezzler, he's just that type. He's like a in your face used car salesman, he keeps assuming he will close the deal even if you give out your fake number, fake name, etc. In about 10-15 years from now, he's just gonna be one of those balding fat pot belly "DJs" that still thinks he can close a deal.
 
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It doesn't matter what type of music you listen to, its what you GET out of the music you listen to. If the type of music you listen to makes you feel depressed and angry at yourself, then thats not good music! However, if it makes you feel elevated and worthwhile, then get more of that music!

My two cents on it.
 
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NHY said:
It doesn't what type of music you listen to, its what you GET out of the music you listen to. If the type of music you listen to makes you feel depressed and angry at yourself, then thats not good music! However, if it makes you feel elevated and worthwhile, then get more of that music!

My two cents on it.
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yo thats what im sayin son

:nono: niggas jackin my answer
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Soprano said:
yo thats what im sayin son

:nono: niggas jackin my answer
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Whoops, Sorry! And I'm not a nigga! :woo: :crackup:

On another note, if I haden't brought that copy of a a single called ' Nessja ' by a german called Scooter, I don't think I would be here today as I am. That track is what started my spirtual evolution to a more optumistic type 4 years ago.

Some songs can do that, change your entire mindset and how you feel about yourself in an instant, which makes you want to go out and change your entire life! ( Like I did ) It doesn't matter what track it is, others may laugh at you for it ( Nessja is a Techno track! ) but if it holds a specail place in your heart, then nothing else matters!
 
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NHY said:
Whoops, Sorry! And I'm not a nigga! :woo: :crackup:

On another note, if I haden't brought that copy of a a single called ' Nessja ' by a german called Scooter, I don't think I would be here today as I am. That track is what started my spirtual evolution to a more optumistic type 4 years ago.

Some songs can do that, change your entire mindset and how you feel about yourself in an instant, which makes you want to go out and change your entire life! ( Like I did ) It doesn't matter what track it is, others may laugh at you for it ( Nessja is a Techno track! ) but if it holds a specail place in your heart, then nothing else matters!
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Spiritual evolution via eurotrash techno? :cry:
 
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