tl/dr edition:
Every woman is a princess with a prince detector. She will take you for granted but only because she has special princess qualities (all the usual stuff a woman assumes is unique to herself and looks) and is entitled to a great life that a prince must give her. You need to apply to be a prince and check off on at least 90% of her 500-point criteria. If you want to be a daddy you need to prove that you can first be a sugar daddy.
Incorrect my dear, your bitterness and bias are showing.....
I do agree with your second post, but your first post was unnecessary.
If a woman is beautiful, fit, intelligent, educated, kind, fun and family oriented, she will have her choice of high status men. That's how it is. Since forever. Ever notice all the men around here lamenting that 'all the good women are taken.....?' Well. They certainly get locked down post haste. There is a reason for that.
Water seeks its own level.
And yes, there is importance to the ability to provide aspect of being a man, and it is NOT princess syndrome (honestly it is a man's job to screen out legit princess syndrome).....
The provider part becomes important for men who want children one day.
You see, being a father requires your woman to be pregnant, which can be 9 months of sickness and misery, which could require bedrest, and other very real health risks for your woman. Then we have childbirth itself, which can have serious complications up to and including death (yes, even in the modern medicine west), we have after birth an infant that requires 24/7 care & feeding (preferably breast feeding), and then the kid doesn't start school until age 5 or so.
Sure, you can ask your woman to get back to work ASAP, but in that case you get to pay for childcare, and neither dad or mom is bonding with or raising the baby/young child.
Kids are extremely expensive any way you slice it, and there is a reason a stay at home mother is seen as a status symbol among bougie circles.
It takes a PROVIDER to afford his children to be raised at home by mom.
That is why a man's ability to provide is a serious matter for quality women who are family oriented. It takes resources to be a single income household.
I know. I afforded my first husband the ability to be a full time parent for 12 years when my kids were young. I provided for a family of 5 with my business because my first husband's business blew up.
No "princess" is going to do that. In fact few women can. But I did. Easily. By leveraging my education and intelligence in a STEM career.
Was that my first choice? Hell no. Our plan had been that I would drop out of the workforce to raise babies and young kids for awhile, forgoing my 6 figure income. But that was not how life went. So I had to shoulder the financial load myself. So I understand exactly what the provider role is insofar as children & family is concerned.
I've done it.
Princess my ass (ROFLMAO)!
Every woman has a pair of boobs and a pvssy. Many women are pretty. Sex is a commodity for a desirable man. Smart women are only too aware of this. The value lies not in looks or anatomy, but in character and value systems. That is where "quality women" differentiate themselves.
