KnightRyder
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Do you think you can substitute with a nice car.....
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How Important is having your Own Pad for a DJ?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well when i use to stay in the house with my parents, i use to find it a lot harder to bring women home etc. But not that I got my own place, bringing women home with me is like a part of the night. I go out, i party, i pick up some women, bring her/them to my place, and we all have some "fun":woo: ...
... So yes, having your own place is REALLY REALLY helpful to your "game".
Laterz....
... So yes, having your own place is REALLY REALLY helpful to your "game".
Laterz....
diplomatic_lies
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Personally I think women feel more comfortable in their home. Especially since my bed and blankets kind of smell really bad, I sometimes sweat in bed and I can't be stuffed washing the blankets.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
RedPill
Master Don Juan
Having moved back in with my parents to start my business after having been out for several years doing the college thing, I can tell you this is a major roadblock to my game. Aside from being low on cash and time, not having my own place is a huge obstacle and makes dating women so much more difficult than it used to be. My parents place is actually decent, but the environment is not at all conducive to bringing chicks back.
The difference between me and a lot of other people my age living at home is the fact that I'm here for a legit reason and have a plan for when to leave. It's the people who are living with mom & dad because they are lazy pieces of sh1t who don't want to enter the grown up world and make some career moves who's game really suffers. Just make sure she doesn't stay with her parents too and it's all good.
The difference between me and a lot of other people my age living at home is the fact that I'm here for a legit reason and have a plan for when to leave. It's the people who are living with mom & dad because they are lazy pieces of sh1t who don't want to enter the grown up world and make some career moves who's game really suffers. Just make sure she doesn't stay with her parents too and it's all good.
diablo
Master Don Juan
I've moved out and in twice now... currently I'm still with the 'rents (still in college, though). Third time is the charm - last 2 I didn't save up enough before I left; kinda figured "Oh, I'll make it somehow". Either I made it and my grades suffered, or my grades did great and I didn't have enough for the rent. Now I've been temporarily living in my old room saving up a nest egg in order to get out of here for good (once I hit a certain point financially... I won't be moving back in for a 3rd time...). With any luck I'll have enough to get myself started studying abroad for a year before returning to the USA and being independent.
Living at home has its advantages and disadvantages. You're subject to house rules, which generally means no females can stay the night, but you also don't have to worry about rent, utilities, food, amenities such as washing machines, appliances like irons, kitchen stuff... each person's situation is going to be different, but in terms of pure game I'd have to say having your own place definitely ranks higher than still living with your parents.
Living at home has its advantages and disadvantages. You're subject to house rules, which generally means no females can stay the night, but you also don't have to worry about rent, utilities, food, amenities such as washing machines, appliances like irons, kitchen stuff... each person's situation is going to be different, but in terms of pure game I'd have to say having your own place definitely ranks higher than still living with your parents.
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Whats a pad?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Having your own place is mandatory to fully benefit from being a DJ. Having a car helps a lot but it doesn't need to be flashy unless you are trying to impress teenyboppers. When I was in high school and then college, I was pulling women with a old beat up Camero I bought for $300. What impressed them most was that I had my own place. 
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Re: and the global dumb@ss award goes to...... *sigh*
Yeah ebonics are really cool ,arent they?