KnightRyder
Senior Don Juan
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Do you think you can substitute with a nice car.....
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How Important is having your Own Pad for a DJ?
- Thread starter KnightRyder
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Well when i use to stay in the house with my parents, i use to find it a lot harder to bring women home etc. But not that I got my own place, bringing women home with me is like a part of the night. I go out, i party, i pick up some women, bring her/them to my place, and we all have some "fun":woo: ...
... So yes, having your own place is REALLY REALLY helpful to your "game".
Laterz....
... So yes, having your own place is REALLY REALLY helpful to your "game".
Laterz....
diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
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Personally I think women feel more comfortable in their home. Especially since my bed and blankets kind of smell really bad, I sometimes sweat in bed and I can't be stuffed washing the blankets.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RedPill
Master Don Juan
Having moved back in with my parents to start my business after having been out for several years doing the college thing, I can tell you this is a major roadblock to my game. Aside from being low on cash and time, not having my own place is a huge obstacle and makes dating women so much more difficult than it used to be. My parents place is actually decent, but the environment is not at all conducive to bringing chicks back.
The difference between me and a lot of other people my age living at home is the fact that I'm here for a legit reason and have a plan for when to leave. It's the people who are living with mom & dad because they are lazy pieces of sh1t who don't want to enter the grown up world and make some career moves who's game really suffers. Just make sure she doesn't stay with her parents too and it's all good.
The difference between me and a lot of other people my age living at home is the fact that I'm here for a legit reason and have a plan for when to leave. It's the people who are living with mom & dad because they are lazy pieces of sh1t who don't want to enter the grown up world and make some career moves who's game really suffers. Just make sure she doesn't stay with her parents too and it's all good.
diablo
Master Don Juan
I've moved out and in twice now... currently I'm still with the 'rents (still in college, though). Third time is the charm - last 2 I didn't save up enough before I left; kinda figured "Oh, I'll make it somehow". Either I made it and my grades suffered, or my grades did great and I didn't have enough for the rent. Now I've been temporarily living in my old room saving up a nest egg in order to get out of here for good (once I hit a certain point financially... I won't be moving back in for a 3rd time...). With any luck I'll have enough to get myself started studying abroad for a year before returning to the USA and being independent.
Living at home has its advantages and disadvantages. You're subject to house rules, which generally means no females can stay the night, but you also don't have to worry about rent, utilities, food, amenities such as washing machines, appliances like irons, kitchen stuff... each person's situation is going to be different, but in terms of pure game I'd have to say having your own place definitely ranks higher than still living with your parents.
Living at home has its advantages and disadvantages. You're subject to house rules, which generally means no females can stay the night, but you also don't have to worry about rent, utilities, food, amenities such as washing machines, appliances like irons, kitchen stuff... each person's situation is going to be different, but in terms of pure game I'd have to say having your own place definitely ranks higher than still living with your parents.
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Whats a pad?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Having your own place is mandatory to fully benefit from being a DJ. Having a car helps a lot but it doesn't need to be flashy unless you are trying to impress teenyboppers. When I was in high school and then college, I was pulling women with a old beat up Camero I bought for $300. What impressed them most was that I had my own place. 
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Re: and the global dumb@ss award goes to...... *sigh*
Yeah ebonics are really cool ,arent they?