"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How important is a woman's face to you?

confusedstate

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For me, other than the woman not being chubby or fat...face is the make or break aspect. And I don't mean "not ugly"...I mean a face that really attracts me. Plenty of women out there (some that I've even dated/slept with) that were "hot" but had snobby/plastic/generic looking faces.

I'm at a point where even for sex, I'd much rather have a girl with a really beautiful nice looking face that's flat chested or flat assed or both than a girl with a killer body and one of those faces you'd just like to smack. The only thing I care about body wise is that she doesn't have a belly or jelly arms. The jersey shore/gucci type face turns me off among other things.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Falcon25

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Very, very, very, very important. You want to wake up next to a troll? You want to throw up in your mouth? I would take down a rhino (fat girl), before an ugly skinny girl any day. A woman's face is God's gift. It can't be bought or changed.
 

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Depends on what you're using her for?
 

SharinganUser

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For me the woman's face has to look really feminine. I don't think Jen Garner is all that pretty because she has a lot of masculine facial features. As does Lady Kaka.
 

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It has to be atleast somewhat attractive for me. She has to be atleast a 6.5. You will eventually have to wake up to that face in the morning and if you wake up disgusted or scared that's a major problem.

Her looks are what keep you from leaving and her character is what makes you stay in the relationship.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zarky

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As the old saying kinda goes: you're turned on by her body but you fall in love with her face.

Or not, as the case may be.
 

The Experience

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This has already been established as a 'butterface'.
 

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less important than her body, her body has to be to up to my expectations, face has to be pretty but its not that important
 

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100% vital.
 

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tres important pour moi !
eyes especially, the smile..without these I cannot board the vessel let alone set sail.
sucker for a pretty face? no, just my preferance
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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