"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How important is a woman's face to you?

confusedstate

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For me, other than the woman not being chubby or fat...face is the make or break aspect. And I don't mean "not ugly"...I mean a face that really attracts me. Plenty of women out there (some that I've even dated/slept with) that were "hot" but had snobby/plastic/generic looking faces.

I'm at a point where even for sex, I'd much rather have a girl with a really beautiful nice looking face that's flat chested or flat assed or both than a girl with a killer body and one of those faces you'd just like to smack. The only thing I care about body wise is that she doesn't have a belly or jelly arms. The jersey shore/gucci type face turns me off among other things.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Falcon25

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Very, very, very, very important. You want to wake up next to a troll? You want to throw up in your mouth? I would take down a rhino (fat girl), before an ugly skinny girl any day. A woman's face is God's gift. It can't be bought or changed.
 

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Depends on what you're using her for?
 

SharinganUser

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For me the woman's face has to look really feminine. I don't think Jen Garner is all that pretty because she has a lot of masculine facial features. As does Lady Kaka.
 

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It has to be atleast somewhat attractive for me. She has to be atleast a 6.5. You will eventually have to wake up to that face in the morning and if you wake up disgusted or scared that's a major problem.

Her looks are what keep you from leaving and her character is what makes you stay in the relationship.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Zarky

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As the old saying kinda goes: you're turned on by her body but you fall in love with her face.

Or not, as the case may be.
 

The Experience

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This has already been established as a 'butterface'.
 

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less important than her body, her body has to be to up to my expectations, face has to be pretty but its not that important
 

Ice882

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100% vital.
 

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tres important pour moi !
eyes especially, the smile..without these I cannot board the vessel let alone set sail.
sucker for a pretty face? no, just my preferance
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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