"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How Important Do You Guys Consider Height in a Woman?

Rubirosa

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My "problem"
I'm an honest 5'10", which I don't consider "short", but i absolutely LOVE women in high heels, so any chick 5'8" or over in heels is going to be taller than me......One 5'8" girlfriend even told me that she didn't wear her tallest heels w/ me for this reason.....bummed the crap oughta me, but I've been told I'm good looking and blessed "down there", so I can't be too f#$%in selfish in life
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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zekko

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Desdinova said:
I like women who are shorter as well. I think they generally have nicer bodies than taller women. I've also never been a fan of long legs. I keep hearing that 5hit in songs about a guy who likes a girl with long legs. I don't get it. Long legs usually means short torso. I think it looks awkward.
I know so many guys who talk about long legs. I like legs, but I've never quite gotten what the big deal about long legs was. High heels, same thing. They're supposed to make the legs look longer. I really don't get it. Who cares how long they look? Obviously someone, but it doesn't do anything for me.

This reminds me of long fingernails, I don't get those either. Long fingernails are supposed to make a girl's fingers look longer. And this is appealing why? I actually prefer a girl with short fingernails. Long fingernails (IMO) look kind of stupid and incredibly impractical.
 

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i don't really care about their height if they look good, and are proportionate. i am 175cm tall, and i had girls being 150cm tall to 190cm tall. it didn't make a difference. in horizontal they are all the same height. and their holes are mostly the same. :D

so as long as they aren't bothered, i sure as hell am not. as i saw, mostly girls around 170 cm are the pickiest in terms of height. they care. the rest, not so much.
 

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I like tall women. I like short women. They all have legs like I like 'em, feet on one end and pvssy on the other.

Pound em all.
 

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zekko said:
I know so many guys who talk about long legs. I like legs, but I've never quite gotten what the big deal about long legs was. High heels, same thing. They're supposed to make the legs look longer. I really don't get it. Who cares how long they look? Obviously someone, but it doesn't do anything for me.
Can't speak for anyone else, but long, slender legs go better up in the air, or over their heads and against headboards or walls. They also wrap better around, so for me it's a sex thing in addition to visual.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I dont care as long as they are not taller than me when they wear heals.
 
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