I have a fairly skinny build (6'4, 180lbs) and although I have developed chest muscles and a developing six pack, my biceps and triceps aren't seeming to be developing as fast. I was wondering really how important it is to a girl for her man to have big arms on scale of 1-10 (10 being significantly important) and if I have a six pack, will my arms look disporportionate to the rest of my body? My arms aren't like super skinny, they're around average.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How important are arm muscles in the grand scheme of things
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benjiprice
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You're way to skinny for your height. If you're "developing" a six pack, then that's why your bis and tris aren't developing. Looks to me like you're losing rather than gaining weight. Start bulking up. The taller you are the better muscle look on you.Brighty said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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He ain't. He is just 16, for heavens sake. You are not "buff" at this age.benjiprice said:
Brighty, just develop a sense of humor if you haven't already, and the chicks will fall for you. **** that big biceps or six pack.
Alphamale1821
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I'm skinny and for the longest time I allowed that to hold me back from many opportunities with some of the hottest, coolest chicks in high school. It wasn't until I realized who I was and that my weight isn't all that important that I started ****ing those hot cool chicks in high school. Looks are simply an edge for most chicks. If you have a cool guy personality most chicks will over look your short comings.
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If you want to bulk-up for your own sake, then please do so. It's healthy for you to feel good about yourself and your body. However, being skinny won't stop you getting laid. fact. Don't ever let it get your down Brighty.benjiprice said:
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He's obviously trying to add muscle mass and hence in that context he's too skinny at 6'4. His age is irrelevant given his height and his goals.ThreeStorms said:
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DO NOT BELIEVE THIS MAN....HE IS A TROLL.NickBe said:
Arm muscles aren't that important, in fact muscles aren't neccessary, you don't need them to get laid. Having said that, just stick to a good workout routine and you'll get the nice arms.....a nice bonus.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
KnockoutJM
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I read some survey thing where they polled women on what body part would "grab their attention, or make them wet fast" I think it was like 60% said abs, 25% said biceps (triceps are needed for nice biceps), and then like 10 said legs, and the other 5 was all random things like forearm, or hands or something
L777
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Oh and don't believe this guy, he's probablysome meathead freak. I'm 6'2 and 175, used to be 155 and have no problem getting laid. Plus I'm athletic and look good in fitted clothes!!benjiprice said: