"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How important are arm muscles in the grand scheme of things

Brighty

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I have a fairly skinny build (6'4, 180lbs) and although I have developed chest muscles and a developing six pack, my biceps and triceps aren't seeming to be developing as fast. I was wondering really how important it is to a girl for her man to have big arms on scale of 1-10 (10 being significantly important) and if I have a six pack, will my arms look disporportionate to the rest of my body? My arms aren't like super skinny, they're around average.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women like toned bodies but it doesn't mean you need to be toned to get women. I do not have big arms although I am toned and I sleep with only 9s and 10s
 

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basically, if you don't have arm muscles, you're never going to get laid :rolleyes:

:crackup:
 
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Brighty said:
I have a fairly skinny build (6'4, 180lbs) and although I have developed chest muscles and a developing six pack, my biceps and triceps aren't seeming to be developing as fast. I was wondering really how important it is to a girl for her man to have big arms on scale of 1-10 (10 being significantly important) and if I have a six pack, will my arms look disporportionate to the rest of my body? My arms aren't like super skinny, they're around average.
You're way to skinny for your height. If you're "developing" a six pack, then that's why your bis and tris aren't developing. Looks to me like you're losing rather than gaining weight. Start bulking up. The taller you are the better muscle look on you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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benjiprice said:
You're way to skinny for your height.
He ain't. He is just 16, for heavens sake. You are not "buff" at this age.

Brighty, just develop a sense of humor if you haven't already, and the chicks will fall for you. **** that big biceps or six pack.
 

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I'm skinny and for the longest time I allowed that to hold me back from many opportunities with some of the hottest, coolest chicks in high school. It wasn't until I realized who I was and that my weight isn't all that important that I started ****ing those hot cool chicks in high school. Looks are simply an edge for most chicks. If you have a cool guy personality most chicks will over look your short comings.
 

The Juan and only

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benjiprice said:
You're way to skinny for your height. If you're "developing" a six pack, then that's why your bis and tris aren't developing. Looks to me like you're losing rather than gaining weight. Start bulking up. The taller you are the better muscle look on you.
If you want to bulk-up for your own sake, then please do so. It's healthy for you to feel good about yourself and your body. However, being skinny won't stop you getting laid. fact. Don't ever let it get your down Brighty.
 

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ThreeStorms said:
He ain't. He is just 16, for heavens sake. You are not "buff" at this age.

Brighty, just develop a sense of humor if you haven't already, and the chicks will fall for you. **** that big biceps or six pack.
He's obviously trying to add muscle mass and hence in that context he's too skinny at 6'4. His age is irrelevant given his height and his goals.
 

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NickBe said:
Women like toned bodies but it doesn't mean you need to be toned to get women. I do not have big arms although I am toned and I sleep with only 9s and 10s
DO NOT BELIEVE THIS MAN....HE IS A TROLL.

Arm muscles aren't that important, in fact muscles aren't neccessary, you don't need them to get laid. Having said that, just stick to a good workout routine and you'll get the nice arms.....a nice bonus.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I read some survey thing where they polled women on what body part would "grab their attention, or make them wet fast" I think it was like 60% said abs, 25% said biceps (triceps are needed for nice biceps), and then like 10 said legs, and the other 5 was all random things like forearm, or hands or something
 

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benjiprice said:
You're way to skinny for your height. If you're "developing" a six pack, then that's why your bis and tris aren't developing. Looks to me like you're losing rather than gaining weight. Start bulking up. The taller you are the better muscle look on you.
Oh and don't believe this guy, he's probablysome meathead freak. I'm 6'2 and 175, used to be 155 and have no problem getting laid. Plus I'm athletic and look good in fitted clothes!!
 
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