I have a fairly skinny build (6'4, 180lbs) and although I have developed chest muscles and a developing six pack, my biceps and triceps aren't seeming to be developing as fast. I was wondering really how important it is to a girl for her man to have big arms on scale of 1-10 (10 being significantly important) and if I have a six pack, will my arms look disporportionate to the rest of my body? My arms aren't like super skinny, they're around average.
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You're way to skinny for your height. If you're "developing" a six pack, then that's why your bis and tris aren't developing. Looks to me like you're losing rather than gaining weight. Start bulking up. The taller you are the better muscle look on you.Brighty said:
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
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He ain't. He is just 16, for heavens sake. You are not "buff" at this age.benjiprice said:
Brighty, just develop a sense of humor if you haven't already, and the chicks will fall for you. **** that big biceps or six pack.
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I'm skinny and for the longest time I allowed that to hold me back from many opportunities with some of the hottest, coolest chicks in high school. It wasn't until I realized who I was and that my weight isn't all that important that I started ****ing those hot cool chicks in high school. Looks are simply an edge for most chicks. If you have a cool guy personality most chicks will over look your short comings.
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If you want to bulk-up for your own sake, then please do so. It's healthy for you to feel good about yourself and your body. However, being skinny won't stop you getting laid. fact. Don't ever let it get your down Brighty.benjiprice said:
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He's obviously trying to add muscle mass and hence in that context he's too skinny at 6'4. His age is irrelevant given his height and his goals.ThreeStorms said:
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DO NOT BELIEVE THIS MAN....HE IS A TROLL.NickBe said:
Arm muscles aren't that important, in fact muscles aren't neccessary, you don't need them to get laid. Having said that, just stick to a good workout routine and you'll get the nice arms.....a nice bonus.
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I read some survey thing where they polled women on what body part would "grab their attention, or make them wet fast" I think it was like 60% said abs, 25% said biceps (triceps are needed for nice biceps), and then like 10 said legs, and the other 5 was all random things like forearm, or hands or something
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Oh and don't believe this guy, he's probablysome meathead freak. I'm 6'2 and 175, used to be 155 and have no problem getting laid. Plus I'm athletic and look good in fitted clothes!!benjiprice said: