DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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nice but my guess is you have the look they like cause those typer of women are very big on looks...LOL
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
And...Existential said:FR: How I slept with an Aspiring Import Model and Her Sister (Part I)
Background
The woman in question is also a club promoter. I have noticed her the last several weeks but have not had a chance to approach her. She typically has a big entourage and a good situation never arose.
This, in and of itself, highlights an important point. The '3 Second Rule' that so many are fond of is simply a means to get past the sticking point of approach anxiety. That's it. Once you’re past it, the optimal response in most situations is to wait until the right moment.
At the same time, I knew I would be seeing this woman again. If you won't, you need to work with what is available.
Beginning of the Night
My Name is Nobody said:OP; post some pics of these girls I want to see what you are bragging about.
I have banged some hotties myself, sure they were aspiring models too![]()
You cant . But you can upload them on www.imageshack.com and post the link here .romangod said:Can someone tell me how to post pics on SS. I have a few I'd like to post but am lost as to how to do it. Thanks.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Daddy The Pimp said:You cant . But you can upload them on www.imageshack.com and post the link here .
you and i are a million miles apart. cleveland is the last place somebody thinks of when they think of a fashion week. nyc is the only spot in north america that has a legit fashion week.Existential said:Aldaris, I thought you were referring to the fashion week in Cleveland.
http://www.fashionweekcleveland.com/
Anyway, I was using a common term that everyone here understood except for you. I just did a google search on 'import model' and not one link came up with anything to do with what you're talking about. I would love to see any sort of information on 'import model' and it referring to girls that are 'imported.' It sounds like a silly idea to me. I'm not saying you're lying, but, I couldn't find anything. Perhaps someone else can...or perhaps even say, "Yes, when I saw the term 'import model', I thought the same thing that Aldaris did." Can someone around here say that?
I wasn't talking about fashion in the first place. You're becoming defensive over if, "import models as you call them would NEVER do real fashion. they are glorified strippers and prostitutes. i am sorry if i am not with it when it comes to trailer park terminology. some of us don't watch nascar and go to import car shows."
Seriously...who cares? You misinterpreted a term. I misinterpreted your response about fashion. And, for the record, I'm not saying that you weren't clear, I reread your original reply and I know you weren't referring to Cleveland. That was my mistake.