DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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nice but my guess is you have the look they like cause those typer of women are very big on looks...LOL
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
And...Existential said:FR: How I slept with an Aspiring Import Model and Her Sister (Part I)
Background
The woman in question is also a club promoter. I have noticed her the last several weeks but have not had a chance to approach her. She typically has a big entourage and a good situation never arose.
This, in and of itself, highlights an important point. The '3 Second Rule' that so many are fond of is simply a means to get past the sticking point of approach anxiety. That's it. Once you’re past it, the optimal response in most situations is to wait until the right moment.
At the same time, I knew I would be seeing this woman again. If you won't, you need to work with what is available.
Beginning of the Night
My Name is Nobody said:OP; post some pics of these girls I want to see what you are bragging about.
I have banged some hotties myself, sure they were aspiring models too![]()
You cant . But you can upload them on www.imageshack.com and post the link here .romangod said:Can someone tell me how to post pics on SS. I have a few I'd like to post but am lost as to how to do it. Thanks.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Daddy The Pimp said:You cant . But you can upload them on www.imageshack.com and post the link here .
you and i are a million miles apart. cleveland is the last place somebody thinks of when they think of a fashion week. nyc is the only spot in north america that has a legit fashion week.Existential said:Aldaris, I thought you were referring to the fashion week in Cleveland.
http://www.fashionweekcleveland.com/
Anyway, I was using a common term that everyone here understood except for you. I just did a google search on 'import model' and not one link came up with anything to do with what you're talking about. I would love to see any sort of information on 'import model' and it referring to girls that are 'imported.' It sounds like a silly idea to me. I'm not saying you're lying, but, I couldn't find anything. Perhaps someone else can...or perhaps even say, "Yes, when I saw the term 'import model', I thought the same thing that Aldaris did." Can someone around here say that?
I wasn't talking about fashion in the first place. You're becoming defensive over if, "import models as you call them would NEVER do real fashion. they are glorified strippers and prostitutes. i am sorry if i am not with it when it comes to trailer park terminology. some of us don't watch nascar and go to import car shows."
Seriously...who cares? You misinterpreted a term. I misinterpreted your response about fashion. And, for the record, I'm not saying that you weren't clear, I reread your original reply and I know you weren't referring to Cleveland. That was my mistake.