"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how i met your mother
- Thread starter sosilky
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why is it always the same type of people who start calling everyone 'KBJs!'
Anyway I think How I Met Your Mother is a good show and is fairly similar to life, just exagerated for comedy, but if it wasn't similar it wouldn't be funny. Kind of irrelevant in any case.
I'll reiterate: i'm not gonna take offense to anything people say to me in here because for the most part i see them as lab rats. (at least the ones that take things so personaly on an anonymous forum with names like oh tits) which is most on here and the reason why Pook told me he left. and if you want to use the word irrelevent your quote is irrelevent because, if the show was funny or not was not the question.SinJester said:
LeComteDeMonteCristo
Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LeComteDeMonteCristo
Don Juan
Rules schmules. This thread is garbage and you know it.sosilky said:
MacAvoy
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taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Kangaroo Bl0w J0b.MacAvoy said:
don't knock it till you tried it. You sort of have to get used to all that jumping up and down....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MacAvoy
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SilverSonnet
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sosilky said:
Lmao! I dont care. You need to start staying on-topic. Site for dating women, and Self-Improvement. Dont start random threads like this, and in all honesty, I dont give a crap whether your offended or not. I'm just trying to keep the quality of the posts up.
I'm not having a go, and you'd know if I was, because there'd be endless stars in here, I'm just asking you to stop posting crap, and put some good mind-boggling questions.
Give us a run for our money, bro.
Cheers man
Ben
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Killer Six Pac
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I don't care.
All I know is Barney Stinson is AWESOME.