HAHA! You Win! too true my young friend. too true.and the how i met your mother thread is no differnt from the AFC movie thread.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
HAHA! You Win! too true my young friend. too true.and the how i met your mother thread is no differnt from the AFC movie thread.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'll reiterate: i'm not gonna take offense to anything people say to me in here because for the most part i see them as lab rats. (at least the ones that take things so personaly on an anonymous forum with names like oh tits) which is most on here and the reason why Pook told me he left. and if you want to use the word irrelevent your quote is irrelevent because, if the show was funny or not was not the question.SinJester said:So I'm a 'lab rat'? That's flattering.
Why is it always the same type of people who start calling everyone 'KBJs!'
Anyway I think How I Met Your Mother is a good show and is fairly similar to life, just exagerated for comedy, but if it wasn't similar it wouldn't be funny. Kind of irrelevant in any case.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
LeComteDeMonteCristo said:Do we actually have moderators on this site?
Rules schmules. This thread is garbage and you know it.sosilky said:sorry cristo i have not violated any rules. not that most follow any kind of code of conduct around here
Kangaroo Bl0w J0b.MacAvoy said:What is a KBJ?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
sosilky said:sorry cristo i have not violated any rules. not that most follow any kind of code of conduct around here
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.