"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how i met your mother
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Good question I think he is a jerk, check out this episode (there is a thirty second comercial first):brett012 said:
http://www.veoh.com/videos/v6566376jP6R9b54?confirmed=1
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drumroll please ....
Is sosilky a troll or not?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I wonder. I haven't seen anything by him that was smart.
If it were smart it would be more informational and uplifting, but he keeps asking question after question, BUT...
I hope he is learning.
.Classic! Typed in "sosilky" into you tube... first hit: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kp-jhcv0qfo
Janet Jackson's "I Get So Lonely"
That's Gold Jerry! Gold!
we are! ... love her like a... hmm.... what word best describes...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Classic! Typed in "sosilky" into you tube... first hit: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kp-jhcv0qfo
Janet Jackson's "I Get So Lonely"
That's Gold Jerry! Gold!
I'm flattered that Rook is so passionate about his discontent for me that he went to the length of typing my fake name in on youtube.....scary...what do you call these guys again? KBJs ? especialy after he told me in another thread that he wants nothing to do with me. yet he finds it necesary to drop in his two cents again with this stalker/psycho behavior. its guys like these i would love to meet in a dark alley the attitude always changes when its time to go toe to toe.
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Sosilky: Total Posts: 197 (16.14 posts per day)sosilky said:
And most of that is just pure rapid fire sh!t, c'mon man "How I met your mother" are you serious???
Just relax a bit yeah?.
You just don't get it. I found this place and am sucking in the knowledge and posting whatever (and yes some of it is out there) just to see peoples reactions. its an experiment. i'm not gonna take offense to anything people say to me in here because for the most part i see them as lab rats. (at least the ones that take things so personaly on an anonymous forum with names like oh tits) then i'll be gone. and the how i met your mother thread is no differnt from the AFC movie thread.( . )( . ) said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.