Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how i met your mother

sosilky

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You guys ever seen the show how i met your mother? Is barney considerd a don juan or a jerk?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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brett012 said:
I wasn't asking because I think Barney is a jerk. I asked because this is such an asinine subject. Barney is a kids show lol.
asinine hah?......K
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sosilky

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MacAvoy said:
How about this for a question ....













drumroll please ....












Is sosilky a troll or not?
someone needs to get laid
 

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WTF is wrong with you, guy? You keep starting thread after thread. Are you really this stupid? Get a damn clue.
 

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WTF is wrong with you, guy? You keep starting thread after thread. Are you really this stupid? Get a damn clue.


touched a nerve in here
 

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He's definately not a DJ.

He's a player.
 

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Mav... bro

I think the cat is out there as well.... but you cant be mad at him. He starts some of the craziest azz conversations here! Does he troll? Hells yes! BUT at least he's a comical.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hmmmm................................

I wonder. I haven't seen anything by him that was smart.

If it were smart it would be more informational and uplifting, but he keeps asking question after question, BUT...

I hope he is learning.
 

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I thought you guys were buds.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smart? HAHAHA... no man... he/she's a troll.

Classic! Typed in "sosilky" into you tube... first hit: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kp-jhcv0qfo

Janet Jackson's "I Get So Lonely"

That's Gold Jerry! Gold!



I'm flattered that Rook is so passionate about his discontent for me that he went to the length of typing my fake name in on youtube.....scary...what do you call these guys again? KBJs ? especialy after he told me in another thread that he wants nothing to do with me. yet he finds it necesary to drop in his two cents again with this stalker/psycho behavior. its guys like these i would love to meet in a dark alley the attitude always changes when its time to go toe to toe.
 

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I was talking to mavrick. You contribute nothing here. MacAvoy is even starting to figure you out.

Don't be flattered... I youtube all things now.... never know what you'll find ;)
 

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Rook said:
I was talking to mavrick. You contribute nothing here. MacAvoy is even starting to figure you out.

Don't be flattered... I youtube all things now.... never know what you'll find ;)
nice life tool
 

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sosilky said:
I'm flattered that Rook is so passionate about his discontent for me that he went to the length of typing my fake name in on youtube.....scary...what do you call these guys again? KBJs ?
Sosilky: Total Posts: 197 (16.14 posts per day)

And most of that is just pure rapid fire sh!t, c'mon man "How I met your mother" are you serious???

Just relax a bit yeah?.
 

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Sosilky: Total Posts: 197 (16.14 posts per day)

And most of that is just pure rapid fire sh!t, c'mon man "How I met your mother"???

Just relax a bit a bit yeah?.
You just don't get it. I found this place and am sucking in the knowledge and posting whatever (and yes some of it is out there) just to see peoples reactions. its an experiment. i'm not gonna take offense to anything people say to me in here because for the most part i see them as lab rats. (at least the ones that take things so personaly on an anonymous forum with names like oh tits) then i'll be gone. and the how i met your mother thread is no differnt from the AFC movie thread.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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