"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There's this man at my work place, who likes to paint himself out as an Alpha male saying how he doesn't get hooked on women, never gets "oneitis" for a girl, just bangs girls and throws them. He never validates them, never leaves comments on their Facebook pictures etc.

...Yet he brought a girl from our work place a bracelet. These bracelets range from $188 to $833. She went around showing it off, stating how she isn't in a relationship with him and they are just seeing each other.

If that's the sign of an Alpha male, I'm glad I am not one. I could understand if this girl was his long-term girlfriend, but she is just some chunky, horrible gold digging slvt who spreads her legs for free gifts etc. The next time this guy goes on about other men at work being "AFC's" or "Losers", I'm going to put him in his place.

I suppose this gift will get him sex, but if he wanted sex that badly he could have paid half of what he paid for a bracelet, at the local brothel. :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The guy actually used the words "oneitis" and "AFC"? I've never heard anyone in real life talk that way.
 
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^ Ditto, only a AFC would use terms like AFC and ALPHA, that tells me he isn't ALPHA right there. He's probably a little BETA, LOL.

What if he won the lottery or something? Then it isn't so bad. Perhaps it's a lot cheaper then you think. also, what kind of a price range is from $188 to $833?
 
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Groovy said:
^ Ditto, only a AFC would use terms like AFC and ALPHA, that tells me he isn't ALPHA right there. He's probably a little BETA, LOL.
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I actually hear the term "alpha male" used a fair bit. A lot of people probably get it from the Discovery Channel.

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What if he won the lottery or something? Then it isn't so bad. Perhaps it's a lot cheaper then you think. also, what kind of a price range is from $188 to $833?
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Lol, I was thinking what if he found it in the street or something and gave it to her? Or what if a former plate left it at his house, and he claimed she didn't?
 
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zekko said:
The guy actually used the words "oneitis" and "AFC"? I've never heard anyone in real life talk that way.
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No, he doesn't use those words, I never said he does, I am using those terms because I don't know what other terms to use. He brands men like that as losers etc. I'd sooner have oneits for a woman than spend a large proportion of my monthly wage on a bracelet for some woman who isn't my long term girlfriend.

As for the bracelet, she says he brought it for her and it's a Tiffany bracelet, so not your cheap end of the market bracelet. I don't know how much her bracelet cost, but it's between the price ranges I've stated.

The condition of the bracelet is immaculate, it's not something that has been left around to gather dust. I'll ask him if he brought it, if he did, he has no right acting like the Big I Am around work laughing at other colleagues with relationship issues etc.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Groovy said:
^ Ditto, only a AFC would use terms like AFC and ALPHA, that tells me he isn't ALPHA right there. He's probably a little BETA, LOL.
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He doesn't use the words AFC or oneitis, he does use the words Alpha and he uses the word Chump/loser to describe other men who he feels is inferior to him. My point is there seems to be a lot of these so called "men" who walk around acting like women are little more than sex objects, only to then act like a puppy dog behind closed doors.

He gives off the impression that women are little more than a pasttime to him, something which doesn't matter and he preaches the same sort of PUA material you get on here, only to then buy a girl an expensive bracelet. It's strange isn't it?
 
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Are you guys allowed to date in your workplace? I am not allowed at my work.
 
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