"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There's this man at my work place, who likes to paint himself out as an Alpha male saying how he doesn't get hooked on women, never gets "oneitis" for a girl, just bangs girls and throws them. He never validates them, never leaves comments on their Facebook pictures etc.

...Yet he brought a girl from our work place a bracelet. These bracelets range from $188 to $833. She went around showing it off, stating how she isn't in a relationship with him and they are just seeing each other.

If that's the sign of an Alpha male, I'm glad I am not one. I could understand if this girl was his long-term girlfriend, but she is just some chunky, horrible gold digging slvt who spreads her legs for free gifts etc. The next time this guy goes on about other men at work being "AFC's" or "Losers", I'm going to put him in his place.

I suppose this gift will get him sex, but if he wanted sex that badly he could have paid half of what he paid for a bracelet, at the local brothel. :crackup:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko

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The guy actually used the words "oneitis" and "AFC"? I've never heard anyone in real life talk that way.
 

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^ Ditto, only a AFC would use terms like AFC and ALPHA, that tells me he isn't ALPHA right there. He's probably a little BETA, LOL.

What if he won the lottery or something? Then it isn't so bad. Perhaps it's a lot cheaper then you think. also, what kind of a price range is from $188 to $833?
 

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Groovy said:
^ Ditto, only a AFC would use terms like AFC and ALPHA, that tells me he isn't ALPHA right there. He's probably a little BETA, LOL.
I actually hear the term "alpha male" used a fair bit. A lot of people probably get it from the Discovery Channel.

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What if he won the lottery or something? Then it isn't so bad. Perhaps it's a lot cheaper then you think. also, what kind of a price range is from $188 to $833?
Lol, I was thinking what if he found it in the street or something and gave it to her? Or what if a former plate left it at his house, and he claimed she didn't?
 
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zekko said:
The guy actually used the words "oneitis" and "AFC"? I've never heard anyone in real life talk that way.
No, he doesn't use those words, I never said he does, I am using those terms because I don't know what other terms to use. He brands men like that as losers etc. I'd sooner have oneits for a woman than spend a large proportion of my monthly wage on a bracelet for some woman who isn't my long term girlfriend.

As for the bracelet, she says he brought it for her and it's a Tiffany bracelet, so not your cheap end of the market bracelet. I don't know how much her bracelet cost, but it's between the price ranges I've stated.

The condition of the bracelet is immaculate, it's not something that has been left around to gather dust. I'll ask him if he brought it, if he did, he has no right acting like the Big I Am around work laughing at other colleagues with relationship issues etc.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Groovy said:
^ Ditto, only a AFC would use terms like AFC and ALPHA, that tells me he isn't ALPHA right there. He's probably a little BETA, LOL.
He doesn't use the words AFC or oneitis, he does use the words Alpha and he uses the word Chump/loser to describe other men who he feels is inferior to him. My point is there seems to be a lot of these so called "men" who walk around acting like women are little more than sex objects, only to then act like a puppy dog behind closed doors.

He gives off the impression that women are little more than a pasttime to him, something which doesn't matter and he preaches the same sort of PUA material you get on here, only to then buy a girl an expensive bracelet. It's strange isn't it?
 

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Are you guys allowed to date in your workplace? I am not allowed at my work.
 
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