"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sheesh! if only i had done this earlier in my previous LTRs..
well story is that she got angry with me for leaving her for a few weeks cause of an arguement we got into. I brought some the past issues in this particular conversation and we started quarreling .. i got angry too but when she really flared up i remembered an advice from the collumns that it's no use to try to win an arguement with a woman cos they never play fair and would get their emotional side in to bring u down.

So i kept quiet but made funny faces in a joking way and said her nose and ears were turning red and she looked really cute this way. I teased her more and at first she got more angrier but the more i teased her the more she gave up on becoming angrier. At last she kept quiet and pouted. I moved in a gave a kiss and a hug and she broke down crying over my shoulder and she said that she missed me all this while.

Vouila! The solution to cool down a hot and angry chick. Oh i added this too "Wow next time we quarrell... it should be near a bed darling" she punched me payfully. Hahahah!

I thought i am setting things straight but instead i learnt how to diffuse a bomb :crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thanks buddy... i think humour really helps in LTRs just as it helps when picking them up.... there was this article from britollair that spells out the truth about women.. One of the advice is not to take her too seriously.. it really helps man! ;)
 
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not bad of a move MightyMate,

Just be carefull that the move dosn't back fire on you. I've seen a crap load of guys that start pulling that card on their women only to have them lose the girl to some other sissy that won them over with old fashion charm..

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by MightyMate
I make em cry then i catch some of their words, i act like im mad, and say i dont wanan speak no more. Then im quiet and they come and say sorry or kiss me.
Woman areeasy as ****.
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yeah i use the keep quiet and stay silent approach too but sometimes its takes too much time and patience. It depends on the situation actually.

For eg; i'm out with her and has sex was my mind later on at night but we unfortunately got into a quarrel cos it's her raging hormones day! What do i do? Diffuse her anger and get her to use her energy on the bed with me man! No sex like makeup sex man! :D

cheers
 
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