Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How high is too high a number for you?

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Mike32ct said:
Agreed. I'm not looking for a virgin because I'm not one myself. Otherwise that is hypocritical.

The threads that really annoy me are the ones the encourage f$cking girls who have boyfriends. These same guys get pissed off when their gf cheats on them.
You got that right! +1 rep
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BigJimbo said:
I don't go to the Goodwill store and buy underwear. Why the Hell would I stick it or worse (my tongue) in something that can give me cancer?

Yea I agree, why got to Goodwill when you can go to Saks Fifth Avenue to buy your underwear...lol
 

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No number is too high. I don't give a ****, what matters is whether I enjoy being with her.
 

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Don't really care as long as they're clean.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Deadly_Ripped said:
Maybe your vision of women as objects has something to do with your desire for them to be relatively untouched.

Property is desired brand new and 'unscathed.'
Human beings are desired well developed and stable. Those things don't come without tribulations.

I think about women less as my personal vehicle, to be ridden by me and only me, and more as the person sitting beside me in the vehicle, helping me enjoy the scenery and the trip to wherever we're going. And if she doesn't need to be told how to give road head and wants to give it to me, then I'm all the happier.

I'll teach a girl how to do all kinds of things, but it's nice when I'm not starting from ground zero.
I strongly disagree. A woman can be stable and developed without having to bang a bunch of guys. Don't come with the whole feminist attitude of "you're treating women as objects." You're a man.
 

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It really doesn't matter as long as it is not some ridiculous amount and they are clean.
 

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more than 0 if shes under 30.

China Rules! :D

virgins a-plenty! All the women I work with are virgins... almost half the women in this city and pretty much every 'single' woman. The caveat is that you gotta marry em after you smash or they stalk and hound the sh1t out of you forever.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you are going to marry a slut, just make sure she is in a new town, far away from where she did her slutting around
 

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I never ask and I never tell. Of the last 30 or so b!tches I've slept with I know the sexual history of maybe 2 of them. And if I ever wanted to marry a girl (heaven forbid) I would FOR SURE never ask and never let her tell me. Even if her number is 0 or 1 or something extremely low, I just don't want to know.
 
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I don't ask and I am not particularly interested.

As long as she doesn't give me a disease then it's cool beans.
 

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Why do I feel like the gentlemen here who require nothing less than virgins are positioned behind an oven, awaiting the completion of a baked pastry...? And, while waiting, they've a fork in hand, with a napkin tucked beneath the neckline of their shirt...

It could just be me, but I don't believe these gentlemen plan on sharing whatever's coming out of that oven..

More plainly, I'd be willing to bet none of them are virgins themselves, or atleast would not---have not--- waited for the perfect woman to lose their own virginity to.
I guess the double standard is alive and thriving.

To their credit, I wouldn't mind a virgin myself, but i'd NEVER make it a requirement for a long term relationship. Why? Because I know i have a rabid desire to f.uck almost anything with smooth skin, breasts and two legs with a wet hole between them. It's human desire. So why shouldn't I expect that same desire from females?

My only requirement: be clean. I do not care about your partners.
 
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