"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How high is too high a number for you?

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This is all dependent on how much you give a ****.

The variance of give a **** levels on this forum is immeasurably high.

Thus, you must give yourself over to introspection.

To contribute to your thread, the answer is that it does not matter at all to me. The real dealbreaker for me is if she has had a kid by someone else.

I think there is something boss about making some girl have your baby.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BigJimbo said:
Only virgins. Every male wants virgins. The Bible, The Koran, The Talmud, etc. all agree with me. Basically, God is my homeboy.
You can like this guy or not but he is right.

No matter how much we lie to ourselves but we would take a virgin everyday,rationalizations as "I want her experiences to satisfy me" are just..rationalizations.
There's nothing wrong in the desire to have a girl that got no previous owner as much as we want a new car,it's just that we have to deal with the modern times.

Guys I really feel good now,talking the truth and cut the pc bullsh1t is refreshing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Robyn923b said:
It really turns me off to know a girl already got phucked

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My ex had been with one guy and I felt kinda dirty towards her for that.

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Anything more than two is unacceptable for an LTR. For a FB probably 4
Not trying to be a d!ck but this cracked me up pretty good man. :kick: Was this a serious post?
 

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1 per year over the age of 16, I"d say, or she's "getting around' way too much for me to risk unprotected sex with her and I'm not interested in screwing a condom. Which is all you get when you use a rubber.
 

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Robyn923b said:
Think about it this way: When you go buy a car you're considering as you personal vehicle, the first thing you look at is the history report to see where the car has been and people have done with it. Women are the same except there is no written record (especially the guys they phucked during vacation).

Maybe your vision of women as objects has something to do with your desire for them to be relatively untouched.

Property is desired brand new and 'unscathed.'
Human beings are desired well developed and stable. Those things don't come without tribulations.

I think about women less as my personal vehicle, to be ridden by me and only me, and more as the person sitting beside me in the vehicle, helping me enjoy the scenery and the trip to wherever we're going. And if she doesn't need to be told how to give road head and wants to give it to me, then I'm all the happier.

I'll teach a girl how to do all kinds of things, but it's nice when I'm not starting from ground zero.
 

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NoCommitments said:
My advice is: DONT ASK! DONT TELL!!

If any of you are discussing the amount of past experiences with a girl that you're banging than you're a chump!
Money post.

Don't Ask, Don't Tell.

;)
 

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When it comes to "numbers," I don't ask, don't tell, and don't believe anything I'm told anyway. Lots of women have asked me mine, and I've never told. That's something that should go to the grave with you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think "when" she lost it is an other factor. Id get turned off to find out that a girl lost her virginity before me (age 16) even if she has only had sex that one time.

For the how many part.... If it was more then me, then it's to much for a relationship. A hookup does not matter.
 

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For me it would depend on how long she's been dating and the number of guys within that time. I'd gauge possibly how long she was able to maintain relationships.

Most will lie anyway. And I wouldn't ask unless she brought it up.

Two partners a year would be okay by me. But that's the MAX. Anything more and I'd feel either she can't maintain relationships or guy's use and abuse her like your local cvm dumpster.

Most women I know have been or are in long term relationships. You'd most likely never find out a true number anyway though.


This is only for a girl I'd choose to date and remain dating.
 

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I don't go to the Goodwill store and buy underwear. Why the Hell would I stick it or worse (my tongue) in something that can give me cancer?
 

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BigJimbo said:
I don't go to the Goodwill store and buy underwear. Why the Hell would I stick it or worse (my tongue) in something that can give me cancer?

every girl you have ever slept with had HPV
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BigJimbo said:
I don't go to the Goodwill store and buy underwear. Why the Hell would I stick it or worse (my tongue) in something that can give me cancer?
Oh come on bro. :crackup:

We get your point, but this borders on pvssyphobic.

The point is, that society is fvcked. To find a virgin that also fits your other criteria is, I would say for all intensive purposes, functionally impossible for the heavy majority of people living in America.

Even if you want to make this a heavy priority for you, you will most certainly experience heavy diminishing returns on other factors, just by the sheer rarity of virginity these days.
 

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I get tired of these threads.

Guys talk about slvts and how they have slept with too many guys, blah blah blah. While at the same time, this site teaches you how to seperate the slvt from her panties. Must be effective as there seems to be alot of slvts out there.

Paradox?
 

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5string said:
I get tired of these threads.

Guys talk about slvts and how they have slept with too many guys, blah blah blah. While at the same time, this site teaches you how to seperate the slvt from her panties. Must be effective as there seems to be alot of slvts out there.

Paradox?
Agreed. I'm not looking for a virgin because I'm not one myself. Otherwise that is hypocritical.

The threads that really annoy me are the ones the encourage f$cking girls who have boyfriends. These same guys get pissed off when their gf cheats on them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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