"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How high is too high a number for you?

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Mike32ct said:
Agreed. I'm not looking for a virgin because I'm not one myself. Otherwise that is hypocritical.

The threads that really annoy me are the ones the encourage f$cking girls who have boyfriends. These same guys get pissed off when their gf cheats on them.
You got that right! +1 rep
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BigJimbo said:
I don't go to the Goodwill store and buy underwear. Why the Hell would I stick it or worse (my tongue) in something that can give me cancer?

Yea I agree, why got to Goodwill when you can go to Saks Fifth Avenue to buy your underwear...lol
 

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No number is too high. I don't give a ****, what matters is whether I enjoy being with her.
 

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Don't really care as long as they're clean.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Deadly_Ripped said:
Maybe your vision of women as objects has something to do with your desire for them to be relatively untouched.

Property is desired brand new and 'unscathed.'
Human beings are desired well developed and stable. Those things don't come without tribulations.

I think about women less as my personal vehicle, to be ridden by me and only me, and more as the person sitting beside me in the vehicle, helping me enjoy the scenery and the trip to wherever we're going. And if she doesn't need to be told how to give road head and wants to give it to me, then I'm all the happier.

I'll teach a girl how to do all kinds of things, but it's nice when I'm not starting from ground zero.
I strongly disagree. A woman can be stable and developed without having to bang a bunch of guys. Don't come with the whole feminist attitude of "you're treating women as objects." You're a man.
 

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It really doesn't matter as long as it is not some ridiculous amount and they are clean.
 

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more than 0 if shes under 30.

China Rules! :D

virgins a-plenty! All the women I work with are virgins... almost half the women in this city and pretty much every 'single' woman. The caveat is that you gotta marry em after you smash or they stalk and hound the sh1t out of you forever.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you are going to marry a slut, just make sure she is in a new town, far away from where she did her slutting around
 

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I never ask and I never tell. Of the last 30 or so b!tches I've slept with I know the sexual history of maybe 2 of them. And if I ever wanted to marry a girl (heaven forbid) I would FOR SURE never ask and never let her tell me. Even if her number is 0 or 1 or something extremely low, I just don't want to know.
 
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I don't ask and I am not particularly interested.

As long as she doesn't give me a disease then it's cool beans.
 

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Why do I feel like the gentlemen here who require nothing less than virgins are positioned behind an oven, awaiting the completion of a baked pastry...? And, while waiting, they've a fork in hand, with a napkin tucked beneath the neckline of their shirt...

It could just be me, but I don't believe these gentlemen plan on sharing whatever's coming out of that oven..

More plainly, I'd be willing to bet none of them are virgins themselves, or atleast would not---have not--- waited for the perfect woman to lose their own virginity to.
I guess the double standard is alive and thriving.

To their credit, I wouldn't mind a virgin myself, but i'd NEVER make it a requirement for a long term relationship. Why? Because I know i have a rabid desire to f.uck almost anything with smooth skin, breasts and two legs with a wet hole between them. It's human desire. So why shouldn't I expect that same desire from females?

My only requirement: be clean. I do not care about your partners.
 
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