"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How have Attention Wh0res responded to you when you walked away?

rrrrr

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I also have an AW in the workplace, she used to work here with me, but moved to a differnt state for the same company, will IM me 1-2 times a week, say hi, then says I gotta go I'm real busy working. Like clockwork. For whatever reason. I gave up a long tme ago and it was my first exprience with AWs, hopefully my last.

Personally I wouldn't have anything to do with them. For example I went to the bar and met a girl there, dealing with this last AW, I could tell within 5 minutes of conversation, this other girl was an AW, and another AFC type there with her confirmed it. So that's the one good thing about wasting your time with one, you can always spot the others later on right off the bat.

How to land one? I dont' know. Someone is banging these girls. My guess the ones that don't put up with her BS, and don't treat her good.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fairly funny how they behave. . .

They are people pleasers and can't have anyone not liking them, so they will go out of their way to earn everyone's approval for validation.

With my last ex, I was the first ex to walk away clean without begging her back and any other afc contraption and blew her off. I said my goodbyes and disappeared.

She e-mailed/txt me constantly for attention, but I didn't bother responding. It took her a while, but she eventually took the hint.

Just remember you don't owe anything to them and it's your choice if you want to remain friends or not. In the end it usually isn't worth it depending on how attached you got.

Game more hbs! :woo:
 

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They are people pleasers and can't have anyone not liking them, so they will go out of their way to earn everyone's approval for validation.
Wow, I find this interesting because my AW is very much like this. She's very concerned with what people think of her. Much more so than most women I know.

Is this a common trait among AW's? I wonder how I could use that to my advantage.....

Fed
 
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