"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How have Attention Wh0res responded to you when you walked away?

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I also have an AW in the workplace, she used to work here with me, but moved to a differnt state for the same company, will IM me 1-2 times a week, say hi, then says I gotta go I'm real busy working. Like clockwork. For whatever reason. I gave up a long tme ago and it was my first exprience with AWs, hopefully my last.

Personally I wouldn't have anything to do with them. For example I went to the bar and met a girl there, dealing with this last AW, I could tell within 5 minutes of conversation, this other girl was an AW, and another AFC type there with her confirmed it. So that's the one good thing about wasting your time with one, you can always spot the others later on right off the bat.

How to land one? I dont' know. Someone is banging these girls. My guess the ones that don't put up with her BS, and don't treat her good.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fairly funny how they behave. . .

They are people pleasers and can't have anyone not liking them, so they will go out of their way to earn everyone's approval for validation.

With my last ex, I was the first ex to walk away clean without begging her back and any other afc contraption and blew her off. I said my goodbyes and disappeared.

She e-mailed/txt me constantly for attention, but I didn't bother responding. It took her a while, but she eventually took the hint.

Just remember you don't owe anything to them and it's your choice if you want to remain friends or not. In the end it usually isn't worth it depending on how attached you got.

Game more hbs! :woo:
 
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They are people pleasers and can't have anyone not liking them, so they will go out of their way to earn everyone's approval for validation.
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Wow, I find this interesting because my AW is very much like this. She's very concerned with what people think of her. Much more so than most women I know.

Is this a common trait among AW's? I wonder how I could use that to my advantage.....

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