"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How have Attention Wh0res responded to you when you walked away?

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I also have an AW in the workplace, she used to work here with me, but moved to a differnt state for the same company, will IM me 1-2 times a week, say hi, then says I gotta go I'm real busy working. Like clockwork. For whatever reason. I gave up a long tme ago and it was my first exprience with AWs, hopefully my last.

Personally I wouldn't have anything to do with them. For example I went to the bar and met a girl there, dealing with this last AW, I could tell within 5 minutes of conversation, this other girl was an AW, and another AFC type there with her confirmed it. So that's the one good thing about wasting your time with one, you can always spot the others later on right off the bat.

How to land one? I dont' know. Someone is banging these girls. My guess the ones that don't put up with her BS, and don't treat her good.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fairly funny how they behave. . .

They are people pleasers and can't have anyone not liking them, so they will go out of their way to earn everyone's approval for validation.

With my last ex, I was the first ex to walk away clean without begging her back and any other afc contraption and blew her off. I said my goodbyes and disappeared.

She e-mailed/txt me constantly for attention, but I didn't bother responding. It took her a while, but she eventually took the hint.

Just remember you don't owe anything to them and it's your choice if you want to remain friends or not. In the end it usually isn't worth it depending on how attached you got.

Game more hbs! :woo:
 
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They are people pleasers and can't have anyone not liking them, so they will go out of their way to earn everyone's approval for validation.
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Wow, I find this interesting because my AW is very much like this. She's very concerned with what people think of her. Much more so than most women I know.

Is this a common trait among AW's? I wonder how I could use that to my advantage.....

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