How has your work romance turned out?

[eli77]

I think most of us have had them .Just wanted to know do you **** where you eat.If so how did it turn out?

 

[lost_blackbird]

There's a half chinese girl at work who has been giving me IOIs for the duration of my time there.
Not going to pursue that though, seems like a bad idea, even if she is VERY interested I think I'd
sooner just leave it. I do talk with her politely from time to time but say or do nothing to ramp things up.
It's better that way.

 

[TheCharmingGuy]

I work from home as an author. So the only person I’ve f***cked at work is my girlfriend.
I remember one time I was writing for a deadline and she walked in in some lingerie I bought her for Christmas. The sex turned out great. The deadline did not.

 

[Plinco]

I think most of us have had them .Just wanted to know do you **** where you eat.If so how did it turn out?

That never turned out well for me. I've learned the hard way to keep work and pleasure separate, as I am sure you have too

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I’ve had 3 work LTRs over the years. I’m still friends with all three.
2 of the 3 just sort of happened. I did pursue one.
I prefer not to date at work. But...things happen.

 

[mjb3617]

That never turned out well for me. I've learned the hard way to keep work and pleasure separate, as I am sure you have too

Second this notion. Typically, you have to keep the relationship a secret to a certain degree so you can enjoy some sense of privacy with your partner. That puts unnecessary pressure on the relationship because you can't enjoy it for what it is. At least that was my experience.

 

[Dash Riprock]

It depends. I've worked at locations with 3000 employees in the building and it worked out ok as she was in another part of the facility. Just don't date someone if it's a small office or if she's in the same group or department as you. *Never* ends well. I've had 2 friends almost lose high paying jobs because they couldn't say no to the p*ussy at work.

 

[powersize]

I have fuked a colleague on my previous work - same team who was sitting in front of me. She wanted relationships but me not - but still we maintained to be good friends. We were very drunk back than.

Than 2 girls from different floors but some mutual friends.

Than in a different company I fuked another direct colleague from the same team who was sitting in front of me as well. With this one it was sh1ty cause I got attached and it took me a couple of months to move on. As for now we chat randomly at work, but I try to ignore her.

And yesterday I slept with another colleague from a different team, same company. Will see what she will bring to me. But hope I will not get to the same situation as with the previous one.

In general I would agree with everyone - you need to be a little retarder to do the same sh1t as I did.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

Oh jeez, i got a good one. Hot chick i worked with for 10 yrs, she was 8 yrs younger than me. She gets divorced and starts dating the customers where i work, she dates 3 of them and none of them work out then for whatever reason she sets her sights on me. Course im ecstatic cause i always wanted her since day one but she was married and we worked together so i wasnt crossing that line. A month into dating she tells me she loves me, shes so happy, im the nicest guy shes ever been with blah blah blah. Date for 3 months, the sex is off the charts and im totally into her. I leave for a week to go deer hunting, come back, suddenly shes distant and colder. Couple days later she sits me down, comes up with some stupid reasons why we wont work and ends it. Im shocked, heart broken. We agreed from the start if it didnt work out we would still be friends. Well the following week at work she starts turning mean against me, talking **** behind my back, ignoring me when i walk thru, tried talking to her, she threatened to go to HR if i didnt leave her alone. Suddenly im the biggest piece of crap to her. 2 weeks later shes dating someone else, a month later he's living with her. Im sure she met him at the bar where he works while i was off hunting and decided for some reason he was a better catch. He's a cook at a bar and lived with his parents at 36 and didnt have a car due to drunk driving and had a criminal record so go figure. Anyways, the next 5 yrs was pure hell having to work in the same bldg. Her going out of her way to be mean to me, me trying to avoid her at work, not even looking in her direction if i could help it, co workers asking me what her problem was with me (only 2 knew we dated). They finally get married after a year and i get the treat of watching him come in often to visit with her or bring her lunch. I was crushed and depressed like never before in my life and i had to live like that for 5 yrs til she finally quit to take a waitress job where her hubby works. Everyday i felt like my job held in the balance on whatever her mood was for that day. Boy did she change on me fast.
So yeah, i learned you never date where you work the hard way. She still comes into work occasionally, she never looks very happy. Im thinking (hoping) maybe he aint as great as she thought he was. Anyways, im finally over it