"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How has your lived changed post-covid?

corrector

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I do see a marked difference in the 10s decade before the pandemic and now I'm operating now.

1) I no longer visit a barber to cut my hair, but instead bought a razor from amazon and have been cutting my own hair since and have not lost the habit. Before the pandemic, I'd pay $ 20 and another $ 10 in tips for a simple razor cut for my hair.
Since the lockdowns/pandemic, I bought this razor and I've paid nothing to cut my hair since then (although I have less contact with the opposite sex, some nice ladies who cut my hair and took the money from this particular establishment).

2) Use wipes as well as toilet paper. The pandemic toilet paper shortage forced me to start looking seriously at wipes. Prior to the pandemic, I tried the wipes thing once, but was so used to just toilet paper, I never really used them. Now, I keep using wipes along side with toilet paper and don't feel toilet paper is enough anymore.

3) Stopped visitng restaurants and hanging out with my folks in public. Everything is more isolated in home/car. Less female contact in public and more isolated today.

4) Dramatically reduced visiting the library to borrow books, DVDs, and Blu-Rays. Instead more into streaming services and streaming as all but replaced DVDs and Blu-Rays. The drawback is there used to be some contact with some women working at the library, and it was a nice experience visit the library to return and pick-up things and have ladies working there sort of know something about me and appear happy to see me.

5) Have not visited a cinema since 2019 to watch Star Wars --- whatever that last movie was. First premium rental cinema was Wonder Woman 1984 in December, 2020, second one was that King Kong vs Godzilla in 2021 (movies that were on streaming the day they were released). After the pandemic, if there is a movie I'm itching to see, I may pay the premium cost to watch it rather than visit the theater as the digital release dates are shorter. No interest in re-visiting the real cinema.

6) Stopped visiting church. Look at spiritual content online.

7) Buying items in bulk rather than individual items and rushing to the store before it closes if I'm out of it at the last minute. Don't roam around large supermarkets or malls. Everything is ordered online and may occasionally visit a store if I have to.

8) Used to work in Real-Estate prior to the pandemic. Was free working with lots of clients but didn't make that much money. Work from home operations, like Insurance have been more dominant after the pandemic.

9) Never took a penny of social assistance in my life and felt it's like for those who are down to their last dollar, have a simple lifestyle (ie unemployed and looking for work rather than self-employed and having a slow spot with the business or not being paid enough, etc...). Since I got paid covid-benefits, I enrolled in social assistance once the benefits wore out. Now, it's a top-up income / support income concept if I don't make enough money in insurance sales at any particular month that I never have to worry of having a month of zero income and wracking up credit card debt like in the past.

These are just nine examples of things that I have seen change with my life where I made some adjustments in the middle of the pandemic, and feel that there is no changing from this mind-set or way of doing things any time soon.

Anyone else change since the pandemic?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nothing really day to day, but my outlook has gone to **** and no amount of "mindset" is going to fundamentally change that. When the world is phucked, the world is phucked.
 

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I don’t have to wear a mask and I can find more things I like in stores. Other than that my life is the same as it ever was. That pandemic event was only a temporary and very minor lifestyle change…
 

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Oh, yeah, I forgot to mention OnlyFans as a change of habit that was heavily influenced by the pandemic which is linked to the covid virus.
That would be point # 10. If there was no covid, then there would be no OnlyFans then or post-pandemic, or I wouldn't care much about it.
 
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Luke, from all of us SoSuave brothers….you need to stop simping
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not much has changed in my life since the pandemic. I always used antiseptic and kept my distance from people. I even liked it when at first everyone was really scared to get close to each other and that's awesome for me. I'm not a tactile person.
 
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