aspiringbloomer
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in college, they were dime a dozen
how about after college?
how about after college?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
how hard is it to meet single and attractive women after college?
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are you related to lonewolflegend or dhoulmagus?
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RangerMIke
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Okay... I'll state the obvious. Your game has to change. The ratio of men to women is the same, but what women look for in a man changes dramatically after college.aspiringbloomer said:
Any woman that left college without a guy in tow no longer really cares as much about POTENTIAL in a man, she is looking for someone that has something demonstably going for him. The other problem a young guy has going against him is that he is competing for women in their early 20s with men that are in their mid 30s.... These men in their mid-30s have a lot more going for them than you do. He has an established career... is A LOT more experienced, and has more going for him that a guy right out of college.
Men get better with age, women don't. A women right out of college is at the top of her game, men don't REALLY peak until they hit their 40s.
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Let's be honest here, and address the elephant in the room. College is not like the American Pie sequels, Road Trip, Animal House, or the countless other films that show college as a Neverland of sorts full of beer, beautiful women, and everyone is getting into comedic mischief involving sex.
Like foreverAFC said the frat guys are shady characters, and the sororities aren't full of beautiful women. I know people who went to expensive far away universities with those expectations, and were left disappointed. I also know girls who were in sororities, and let me tell you they're typically big headed, wannabe feminist/liberal, up-tight, and aren't that attractive.
I've only had the community college experience. While there are an abundance of women, the majority of them aren't worth the trouble. You have pretty much three types, ones who behave like total wh0res, secret slvts, and attention wh0res who string along the same orbiters from high school but are looking for new ones. VERY few of the females haven't been like that.
There's large amounts of attractive women everywhere. The female population outnumbers men, so there's plenty out there. Just go out and meet some. You'd honestly meet a better quality of woman somewhere else.
This obsession needs to stop. You're in your 20s, and have plenty of life ahead of you. Do you really want to look back at now, and remember this? How you obsessed over not fvcking some tuna boat wh0res in college, and therefore didn't have a meaningful college life because it didn't meet the standards of a teen comedy? How you think college is full of sex with good women, just because the guy on Road Trip had sex with that hot blonde at the beginning of the film.
I'll be sure to post this on any other accounts that post the same question.
Like foreverAFC said the frat guys are shady characters, and the sororities aren't full of beautiful women. I know people who went to expensive far away universities with those expectations, and were left disappointed. I also know girls who were in sororities, and let me tell you they're typically big headed, wannabe feminist/liberal, up-tight, and aren't that attractive.
I've only had the community college experience. While there are an abundance of women, the majority of them aren't worth the trouble. You have pretty much three types, ones who behave like total wh0res, secret slvts, and attention wh0res who string along the same orbiters from high school but are looking for new ones. VERY few of the females haven't been like that.
There's large amounts of attractive women everywhere. The female population outnumbers men, so there's plenty out there. Just go out and meet some. You'd honestly meet a better quality of woman somewhere else.
This obsession needs to stop. You're in your 20s, and have plenty of life ahead of you. Do you really want to look back at now, and remember this? How you obsessed over not fvcking some tuna boat wh0res in college, and therefore didn't have a meaningful college life because it didn't meet the standards of a teen comedy? How you think college is full of sex with good women, just because the guy on Road Trip had sex with that hot blonde at the beginning of the film.
I'll be sure to post this on any other accounts that post the same question.