aspiringbloomer
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in college, they were dime a dozen
how about after college?
how about after college?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how hard is it to meet single and attractive women after college?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
sylvester the cat
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are you related to lonewolflegend or dhoulmagus?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
aspiringbloomer
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RangerMIke
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Okay... I'll state the obvious. Your game has to change. The ratio of men to women is the same, but what women look for in a man changes dramatically after college.aspiringbloomer said:
Any woman that left college without a guy in tow no longer really cares as much about POTENTIAL in a man, she is looking for someone that has something demonstably going for him. The other problem a young guy has going against him is that he is competing for women in their early 20s with men that are in their mid 30s.... These men in their mid-30s have a lot more going for them than you do. He has an established career... is A LOT more experienced, and has more going for him that a guy right out of college.
Men get better with age, women don't. A women right out of college is at the top of her game, men don't REALLY peak until they hit their 40s.
Zapp Brannigan
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Let's be honest here, and address the elephant in the room. College is not like the American Pie sequels, Road Trip, Animal House, or the countless other films that show college as a Neverland of sorts full of beer, beautiful women, and everyone is getting into comedic mischief involving sex.
Like foreverAFC said the frat guys are shady characters, and the sororities aren't full of beautiful women. I know people who went to expensive far away universities with those expectations, and were left disappointed. I also know girls who were in sororities, and let me tell you they're typically big headed, wannabe feminist/liberal, up-tight, and aren't that attractive.
I've only had the community college experience. While there are an abundance of women, the majority of them aren't worth the trouble. You have pretty much three types, ones who behave like total wh0res, secret slvts, and attention wh0res who string along the same orbiters from high school but are looking for new ones. VERY few of the females haven't been like that.
There's large amounts of attractive women everywhere. The female population outnumbers men, so there's plenty out there. Just go out and meet some. You'd honestly meet a better quality of woman somewhere else.
This obsession needs to stop. You're in your 20s, and have plenty of life ahead of you. Do you really want to look back at now, and remember this? How you obsessed over not fvcking some tuna boat wh0res in college, and therefore didn't have a meaningful college life because it didn't meet the standards of a teen comedy? How you think college is full of sex with good women, just because the guy on Road Trip had sex with that hot blonde at the beginning of the film.
I'll be sure to post this on any other accounts that post the same question.
Like foreverAFC said the frat guys are shady characters, and the sororities aren't full of beautiful women. I know people who went to expensive far away universities with those expectations, and were left disappointed. I also know girls who were in sororities, and let me tell you they're typically big headed, wannabe feminist/liberal, up-tight, and aren't that attractive.
I've only had the community college experience. While there are an abundance of women, the majority of them aren't worth the trouble. You have pretty much three types, ones who behave like total wh0res, secret slvts, and attention wh0res who string along the same orbiters from high school but are looking for new ones. VERY few of the females haven't been like that.
There's large amounts of attractive women everywhere. The female population outnumbers men, so there's plenty out there. Just go out and meet some. You'd honestly meet a better quality of woman somewhere else.
This obsession needs to stop. You're in your 20s, and have plenty of life ahead of you. Do you really want to look back at now, and remember this? How you obsessed over not fvcking some tuna boat wh0res in college, and therefore didn't have a meaningful college life because it didn't meet the standards of a teen comedy? How you think college is full of sex with good women, just because the guy on Road Trip had sex with that hot blonde at the beginning of the film.
I'll be sure to post this on any other accounts that post the same question.