"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How hard do you push yourself?

Yo'Mama

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to go out and meet women. Do you do it when you're feeling tired or down or not in a social mood?

I think some people just do it when they feel like doing it. For other people they almost see it as 'work' and, just as with your job, you have to go and put in the hours even when you just want to stay in bed.

I'm kind of in between I guess. It's Saturday night here though and I'm tired but maybe looking for some motivation to push myself and get out there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigneil

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I like to get dressed up and keep the car detailed and then drive downtown for a drink or two. If I happen to meet women, great. If not, that's fine also. I usually do some pull-ups and push-ups first to wake up, but don't go if you're tired.
 

PapiChulo

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I am lazy when it comes down to it and only go out when I am in the mood or meeting up with a buddy. When you have to work for it, the whole process doesn't seem like fun. And it has not been stressed enough that you should enjoy yourself at first place.
 

MisterD

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I don't push myself at all to meet women.

If I'm in a good mood and feeling confident then I have no problem talking to strangers, and whatever happens happens.

But as for "sarging" or going out strictly just to meet women and saying okay my goal is to get xyz amount of numbers today, and walk up to random women and play a numbers game. No.

I live my life and women come second.

I don't mind letting that hottie walking down the street pass me by because I know another one is not far behind.

I do however, push myself very hard when it comes to landing said women.

For me it's not enough to just be another guy she hooks up with. I want to be THE guy. I want to stand out from the pack. So I push myself as far as making sure I'm the best possible man I can be and the best man she's ever known.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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