"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How hard do you push yourself?

Yo'Mama

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to go out and meet women. Do you do it when you're feeling tired or down or not in a social mood?

I think some people just do it when they feel like doing it. For other people they almost see it as 'work' and, just as with your job, you have to go and put in the hours even when you just want to stay in bed.

I'm kind of in between I guess. It's Saturday night here though and I'm tired but maybe looking for some motivation to push myself and get out there.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bigneil

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I like to get dressed up and keep the car detailed and then drive downtown for a drink or two. If I happen to meet women, great. If not, that's fine also. I usually do some pull-ups and push-ups first to wake up, but don't go if you're tired.
 

PapiChulo

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I am lazy when it comes down to it and only go out when I am in the mood or meeting up with a buddy. When you have to work for it, the whole process doesn't seem like fun. And it has not been stressed enough that you should enjoy yourself at first place.
 

MisterD

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I don't push myself at all to meet women.

If I'm in a good mood and feeling confident then I have no problem talking to strangers, and whatever happens happens.

But as for "sarging" or going out strictly just to meet women and saying okay my goal is to get xyz amount of numbers today, and walk up to random women and play a numbers game. No.

I live my life and women come second.

I don't mind letting that hottie walking down the street pass me by because I know another one is not far behind.

I do however, push myself very hard when it comes to landing said women.

For me it's not enough to just be another guy she hooks up with. I want to be THE guy. I want to stand out from the pack. So I push myself as far as making sure I'm the best possible man I can be and the best man she's ever known.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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