Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How frustrating it is to deal with beta males

sharkbeat

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No wonder that women despise them so much.

I am talking about this out of experience of interacting with men who keep things for himself. It is frustrating or even down-right depressing when hanging out with these type of males. This is typically what a beta male's responses consist of:

"I don't know"
"I don't care"
"I guess"
"Up to you"

There is a big difference between saying "I don't know" with a big confidence that you actually don't know a thing and saying "I don't know" with a contemplating facial expression. Conversation is mental exercise where you pass around ideas around people and they pass them back to you adding their own ideas. If a person passes the ball to you and you respond with "I don't care", you are not passing the ball back to the other person, nobody wants to talk to you. Why? You are not giving anything back.

When you only receive, you are not interesting. You'd only become interesting when you give something back.

When a woman gives you an IOI or eye contact, she's passing the ball to you, and you must give the ball back to her by approaching her. She knows you are interested from your body language and facial expression so stop faking that you are not.

Stop being a beta for heaven's sake.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That all tied together really nicely and think about it, I was always very "beta" male and my worst trait was my indecisiveness. You feel a 253,885 times better about yourself when you beat the "beta" rubbish out of you and replace it with harder edgier alpha material.

My favourite thing about my journey into this world is the way it's shaped me as a person in general... I now command much more respect from my own friends.
 

War Against Betaism

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Not to mention that when they're your friends who are deprived of women their whole life and instantly find that "one" girl who they will spend the rest of their life with, they will leave you in the dust.
 
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