"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How frustrating it is to deal with beta males

sharkbeat

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No wonder that women despise them so much.

I am talking about this out of experience of interacting with men who keep things for himself. It is frustrating or even down-right depressing when hanging out with these type of males. This is typically what a beta male's responses consist of:

"I don't know"
"I don't care"
"I guess"
"Up to you"

There is a big difference between saying "I don't know" with a big confidence that you actually don't know a thing and saying "I don't know" with a contemplating facial expression. Conversation is mental exercise where you pass around ideas around people and they pass them back to you adding their own ideas. If a person passes the ball to you and you respond with "I don't care", you are not passing the ball back to the other person, nobody wants to talk to you. Why? You are not giving anything back.

When you only receive, you are not interesting. You'd only become interesting when you give something back.

When a woman gives you an IOI or eye contact, she's passing the ball to you, and you must give the ball back to her by approaching her. She knows you are interested from your body language and facial expression so stop faking that you are not.

Stop being a beta for heaven's sake.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That all tied together really nicely and think about it, I was always very "beta" male and my worst trait was my indecisiveness. You feel a 253,885 times better about yourself when you beat the "beta" rubbish out of you and replace it with harder edgier alpha material.

My favourite thing about my journey into this world is the way it's shaped me as a person in general... I now command much more respect from my own friends.
 

War Against Betaism

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Not to mention that when they're your friends who are deprived of women their whole life and instantly find that "one" girl who they will spend the rest of their life with, they will leave you in the dust.
 
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