"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How far in Advance...

How Far in Advance do you ask your Date?

  • 1-2 days

    Votes: 1 50.0%

  • closest weekend (regardless of notice)

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • closest weekend (at least 2 days notice)

    Votes: 1 50.0%

  • following weekday

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • following weekend

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    2
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radronOmega

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Do you ask women out when you schedule dates? This hasn't been brought up before, and I thought it would be interesting to see. Also, include general availability rates also. This will be fun to discuss.


Personally, I like to ask women on Fridays. Not a real weekend so no previous activities prior to me asking, so the date is less a burden, rather, more of a relief from boredom. I usually ask with a 2 day advance notice at least.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cjyogz

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well from what i've read in the DJ Bible and other sources it recommends asking the girl out on a date, but not giving a day, tell her that you have a busy schedule and that you will call her when you have are certain you have some free time.

This buildssome tension and she feels that she needs to compete harder for your time. Thats the best way to do it, works well for me.
 
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I have no idea what you're saying in your post, but I think it has something to do with planning dates?

Just don't plan two dates at the same time.
 
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