"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How far in Advance...

How Far in Advance do you ask your Date?

  • 1-2 days

    Votes: 1 50.0%

  • closest weekend (regardless of notice)

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • closest weekend (at least 2 days notice)

    Votes: 1 50.0%

  • following weekday

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • following weekend

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    2
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radronOmega

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Do you ask women out when you schedule dates? This hasn't been brought up before, and I thought it would be interesting to see. Also, include general availability rates also. This will be fun to discuss.


Personally, I like to ask women on Fridays. Not a real weekend so no previous activities prior to me asking, so the date is less a burden, rather, more of a relief from boredom. I usually ask with a 2 day advance notice at least.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cjyogz

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well from what i've read in the DJ Bible and other sources it recommends asking the girl out on a date, but not giving a day, tell her that you have a busy schedule and that you will call her when you have are certain you have some free time.

This buildssome tension and she feels that she needs to compete harder for your time. Thats the best way to do it, works well for me.
 
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Ace of Flames

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I have no idea what you're saying in your post, but I think it has something to do with planning dates?

Just don't plan two dates at the same time.
 
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