of course you better be getting the goods, it comes to mind cuz theres a girl thats like an hour away, and i dont think she could expect me nor would i go and see her any more then 1x a week, if she was over 1.5 hour it would have to prob be every couple weeks as that gas money would get me. what are yalls limits?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How far and How often are you willing to travel to see a girlfreind?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
coochieman
Don Juan
Not Far.
Not even close to almost far.
Even if near, with the least amount of stress demands.
Not even close to almost far.
Even if near, with the least amount of stress demands.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Up to 30 minutes -- optimal
1 hour --- if she was great
2 hours max --- if she's my dream woman
1 hour --- if she was great
2 hours max --- if she's my dream woman
I'm currently traveling 18 miles in 30 minutes for it and thats about as far as I'm willing to go.
Never understood those (one of my brothers for example) that purchases plane tickets to get poon every other month. what a waste.
I wouldn't do that for a 9 or a 10, unless she was footing the air fare and paying all the visits.
Never understood those (one of my brothers for example) that purchases plane tickets to get poon every other month. what a waste.
I wouldn't do that for a 9 or a 10, unless she was footing the air fare and paying all the visits.
20-30 was the max. But they were all crazy *****es from the bars and clubs that I met in other cities, so nothing lasted beyond a few weeks. Thank the Heavens. One lunatic from the club wanted to date, even though she lived 8 states away, and was just visiting a crazy friend. We met only once. During our pointless conversation, she started freaking out 'cause I reminded her SO much of this hot guy who got shot in the face in front of her. She didn't want to leave without me, and blah blah. Uh, yeah. I can see, maybe an ex, a guy you had a crush on, or whatever. But someone who got shot in the face? WTF? :trouble:
Some hot *****es at those clubs, but holy ****, trash upon trash. All these younger, crazy, popular, fake hot girls you guys are pining after are almost guaranteed to become club skanks. That's what they become once the party ***** stage wears out, and they become too old / need to find other degenerates to associate with. They basically advance to the club ***** scene; nothing else changes. They're still out of their minds, intoxicated with everything, and fake / shallow / slutty as hell.
I associated with, and dated so many girls from those 2 scenes, and they were all garbage. Never the diamond in the rough. No one who visited a bar or went to a party on the fly. They went to those scenes for a reason. Dysfunctional sluts ahoy. You can meet them anywhere outside of these scenes, but they still belong to them, and are bat**** insane. Lifestyle and friends / associates are vitally important when weeding people out - in addition to personality and craziness meter.
Some hot *****es at those clubs, but holy ****, trash upon trash. All these younger, crazy, popular, fake hot girls you guys are pining after are almost guaranteed to become club skanks. That's what they become once the party ***** stage wears out, and they become too old / need to find other degenerates to associate with. They basically advance to the club ***** scene; nothing else changes. They're still out of their minds, intoxicated with everything, and fake / shallow / slutty as hell.
I associated with, and dated so many girls from those 2 scenes, and they were all garbage. Never the diamond in the rough. No one who visited a bar or went to a party on the fly. They went to those scenes for a reason. Dysfunctional sluts ahoy. You can meet them anywhere outside of these scenes, but they still belong to them, and are bat**** insane. Lifestyle and friends / associates are vitally important when weeding people out - in addition to personality and craziness meter.
My girl lives one hour away from me and usually she drives up here to see me. I'm so busy during the week that I wouldn't get to see her much more often outside the weekends anyway if she lived closer so it doesn't bother me that much.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.