of course you better be getting the goods, it comes to mind cuz theres a girl thats like an hour away, and i dont think she could expect me nor would i go and see her any more then 1x a week, if she was over 1.5 hour it would have to prob be every couple weeks as that gas money would get me. what are yalls limits?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How far and How often are you willing to travel to see a girlfreind?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
coochieman
Don Juan
Not Far.
Not even close to almost far.
Even if near, with the least amount of stress demands.
Not even close to almost far.
Even if near, with the least amount of stress demands.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Up to 30 minutes -- optimal
1 hour --- if she was great
2 hours max --- if she's my dream woman
1 hour --- if she was great
2 hours max --- if she's my dream woman
I'm currently traveling 18 miles in 30 minutes for it and thats about as far as I'm willing to go.
Never understood those (one of my brothers for example) that purchases plane tickets to get poon every other month. what a waste.
I wouldn't do that for a 9 or a 10, unless she was footing the air fare and paying all the visits.
Never understood those (one of my brothers for example) that purchases plane tickets to get poon every other month. what a waste.
I wouldn't do that for a 9 or a 10, unless she was footing the air fare and paying all the visits.
20-30 was the max. But they were all crazy *****es from the bars and clubs that I met in other cities, so nothing lasted beyond a few weeks. Thank the Heavens. One lunatic from the club wanted to date, even though she lived 8 states away, and was just visiting a crazy friend. We met only once. During our pointless conversation, she started freaking out 'cause I reminded her SO much of this hot guy who got shot in the face in front of her. She didn't want to leave without me, and blah blah. Uh, yeah. I can see, maybe an ex, a guy you had a crush on, or whatever. But someone who got shot in the face? WTF? :trouble:
Some hot *****es at those clubs, but holy ****, trash upon trash. All these younger, crazy, popular, fake hot girls you guys are pining after are almost guaranteed to become club skanks. That's what they become once the party ***** stage wears out, and they become too old / need to find other degenerates to associate with. They basically advance to the club ***** scene; nothing else changes. They're still out of their minds, intoxicated with everything, and fake / shallow / slutty as hell.
I associated with, and dated so many girls from those 2 scenes, and they were all garbage. Never the diamond in the rough. No one who visited a bar or went to a party on the fly. They went to those scenes for a reason. Dysfunctional sluts ahoy. You can meet them anywhere outside of these scenes, but they still belong to them, and are bat**** insane. Lifestyle and friends / associates are vitally important when weeding people out - in addition to personality and craziness meter.
Some hot *****es at those clubs, but holy ****, trash upon trash. All these younger, crazy, popular, fake hot girls you guys are pining after are almost guaranteed to become club skanks. That's what they become once the party ***** stage wears out, and they become too old / need to find other degenerates to associate with. They basically advance to the club ***** scene; nothing else changes. They're still out of their minds, intoxicated with everything, and fake / shallow / slutty as hell.
I associated with, and dated so many girls from those 2 scenes, and they were all garbage. Never the diamond in the rough. No one who visited a bar or went to a party on the fly. They went to those scenes for a reason. Dysfunctional sluts ahoy. You can meet them anywhere outside of these scenes, but they still belong to them, and are bat**** insane. Lifestyle and friends / associates are vitally important when weeding people out - in addition to personality and craziness meter.
My girl lives one hour away from me and usually she drives up here to see me. I'm so busy during the week that I wouldn't get to see her much more often outside the weekends anyway if she lived closer so it doesn't bother me that much.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.