Theres a girl that ive been trying to game for a little bit. i wont get into the details but once in a while she just seems like an overall closed off person. So i could i open her and say youre cool but are you always this standoffish with guys?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how effective is this neg??
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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That's as effective as: " Eeewww, you have a booger hangin'."
Try this instead: "Hello." Lionel Richie style.
Try this instead: "Hello." Lionel Richie style.
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That's not a neg. That's just a question, an inappropriate one as well.aix237 said:
Even if she answers you, she'll be telling you a total lie anyway.
The reason she's standoffish is because your game with her sucks.