"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how effective is this neg??

aix237

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Theres a girl that ive been trying to game for a little bit. i wont get into the details but once in a while she just seems like an overall closed off person. So i could i open her and say youre cool but are you always this standoffish with guys?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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aix237 said:
Theres a girl that ive been trying to game for a little bit. i wont get into the details but once in a while she just seems like an overall closed off person. So i could i open her and say youre cool but are you always this standoffish with guys?
That's not a neg. That's just a question, an inappropriate one as well.

Even if she answers you, she'll be telling you a total lie anyway.

The reason she's standoffish is because your game with her sucks.
 
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