Theres a girl that ive been trying to game for a little bit. i wont get into the details but once in a while she just seems like an overall closed off person. So i could i open her and say youre cool but are you always this standoffish with guys?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
how effective is this neg??
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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That's as effective as: " Eeewww, you have a booger hangin'."
Try this instead: "Hello." Lionel Richie style.
Try this instead: "Hello." Lionel Richie style.
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That's not a neg. That's just a question, an inappropriate one as well.aix237 said:
Even if she answers you, she'll be telling you a total lie anyway.
The reason she's standoffish is because your game with her sucks.