Had a girl go ghost on me after we hooked up on the first date. Took her 2 weeks to respond to a text, giving no valid excuse as to doing so. I've never effectively done it, but does the "who's this" text work? Anyone ever had any good experiences with it? Indifferent as to whether or not I see her again.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How effective is the "who's this" text?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
Women do that sh!t all the time, why shouldn't men be able to?
PantyWhisperer
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I agree with all the above. It's great fun imagining their little angry brains spinning when they see that. LOL It's a rare reminder for them that they are not the be all end all for all of the world's men. Keep her grounded.
And how is their reaction? Were they groveling at your feet or did you never hear from them again? Curious.I use it every chance I get, mainly because I really enjoy fuhking with them!Very Effective in situations like you mentioned. Only one time did a girl call me out on it.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
grayclif
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What, did you use it the next day or something?
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Had a recent girl that gave me some flakey excuses on why she couldn't meet up for our scheduled date. After that I deleted her number. About 2 weeks later she texted me and I claimed I didn't know who she was. She called me out, so I ignored her. She then sent a text saying she gave me her number on pof and if I really wanted to talk to her I could go look it up! The next day I get a POF(dating site) message from her with a smiley face. The previous message she sent was her phone number and thats when I confirmed the number. I did end up going on a date with her, but I shouldn't have. She's a damn game player. I didn't have anything else going so I did it.
Years ago I had a girl text me and had no clue who it was. But she asked how my search for a house was going. So I played along in a joking/sarcastic manner still not having any clue. Finally, it dawned on me that this was an exgirlfriend(who was a realtor) from 3yrs previous that likely saw my name on a list of people that were looking for houses to buy. So I googled her number and sure enough it was her. I then sent a text saying, I have no clue who you are!
She refused to believe me. I had no interest in seeing her again so I stopped texting her and she went away. She was def wanting to rekindle something.These girls all hate rejection. The hot ones rarely experience rejection. And by claiming you don't know who they are flips some attraction switches and spools up that hamster wheel which makes the vagina tingle! How dare a guy reject them by claiming he doesn't know who they are!
Carpathian
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She'll phrase her text in such a way that it is perfectly clear who it is from so you can't use this ploy on her.
Just an update:
I used it on her, and to say it went well would be a huge understatement. I could hear the mortal combat "flawless victory" sound effect in my head afterwards. I have so much power right now I don't even know what to do with it. Maybe I'll build a wall and run for president.
I used it on her, and to say it went well would be a huge understatement. I could hear the mortal combat "flawless victory" sound effect in my head afterwards. I have so much power right now I don't even know what to do with it. Maybe I'll build a wall and run for president.
sodbuster
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I had one call me and ask if I got drunk and had fun last night. I said "who is this?" She replied "you know who this is" When I told her I really didn't..... she was pissed. Only 2 women I've dated come to mind with the accent. But one was 30 years ago and the other was 3. No interest in either one of them. I'm not jumping through hoops to date a woman who took that long to realize her mistake
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PantyWhisperer
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This. I agree one hundred percent and imagining them on the wheel is truly satisfying. Even better if you have a front row seat via a mutual friend. It's delicious joy that comes from torturing them like this!