Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How easy is it for a woman to get a court to agree (DNA test pending) that a certain man knocked her up?

MatureDJ

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I was discussing this topic on the Anything Else forum, and I realized that my knowledge of the Law is probably deficient.

Let's say that some man is a locally known wealthy man, and some woman just out & out claims that her child is his (presumably when she is asked to name someone for the birth certificate). Could she simply file suit and force this man to submit to a DNA test without any other corroborated evidence? I suppose that when she is asked about who the father is, if she said that a certain man was the ONLY man that could have possibly knocked her up, and the DNA test proves otherwise, she would be guilty of perjury - and that to give her plausible deniability of her lying, she could name this man and then "some random hookup" that she had forgotten, but I wonder if in that situation a court would not allow to do a fishing operation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was discussing this topic on the Anything Else forum, and I realized that my knowledge of the Law is probably deficient.

Let's say that some man is a locally known wealthy man, and some woman just out & out claims that her child is his (presumably when she is asked to name someone for the birth certificate). Could she simply file suit and force this man to submit to a DNA test without any other corroborated evidence? I suppose that when she is asked about who the father is, if she said that a certain man was the ONLY man that could have possibly knocked her up, and the DNA test proves otherwise, she would be guilty of perjury - and that to give her plausible deniability of her lying, she could name this man and then "some random hookup" that she had forgotten, but I wonder if in that situation a court would not allow to do a fishing operation.
If you're not getting laid, how does this even matter?
 

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I was discussing this topic on the Anything Else forum, and I realized that my knowledge of the Law is probably deficient.

Let's say that some man is a locally known wealthy man, and some woman just out & out claims that her child is his (presumably when she is asked to name someone for the birth certificate). Could she simply file suit and force this man to submit to a DNA test without any other corroborated evidence? I suppose that when she is asked about who the father is, if she said that a certain man was the ONLY man that could have possibly knocked her up, and the DNA test proves otherwise, she would be guilty of perjury - and that to give her plausible deniability of her lying, she could name this man and then "some random hookup" that she had forgotten, but I wonder if in that situation a court would not allow to do a fishing operation.
I don't think she could. They can't just force a man with no ties to her to just take a paternity test. If they can well we need to stop worrying so much about preventing men from raping women, and invest resources into changing this.
 

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Of course it can happen. It is a fairly common occurrence. The rationale is that everyone pays for the kid with welfare, thus the point of court ordered child support.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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