"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How does one juggle the many challenges of being a man?

FutureSpartan

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My priorities in life

1. The necessity these days to be a "value-added" to my employer/clients
2. The drive to be wealthy
3. The motivation to stay in shape, eat right
4. The time to build and maintain relationships with friends and family
5. The time to cultivate hobbies and passions
6. The need to stay updated on social trends, current events, and happenings
7. The ability to hack through dire circumstances and life's problems
8. The need to demonstrate masculinity in mindset, identity, poise, and actions

and then of course....

6. the immense challenge of being able to build and maintain intimate relationships with the opposite sex...


How can a man achieve all this without sacrificing one aspect over the other? I want to be a renaissance man....but from my experience its really hard to pull off! How do you guys do it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lugsy211

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Bump. I'm really interested in this thread. I always seem to be lacking in one or another of the criteria, and its usually 7. that holds me back the most.
 

Warrior74

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Discipline. It's a life long battle to develop for some, easy for others. I struggle with it every day.
 

YogurtSlinger

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Spend less time on the internet. Then you'll have more time for the rest of that BS.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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