"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How does one "fake" a social life when he doesn't have one?

Warrior74

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Volunteer. Find a cause or organization you believe in and join it. It will help you meet new people, give you some purpose in life and make you feel better about yourself by helping others. It's no downside.

I do work with two groups right now and I've met a lot of prominent people in my area because of it. Some have even become clients and a few friends. It's not about pickup, but there usually are some good looking women around, just be carful and guard your reputation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr CIDH

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Volunteer work is chill to meet people, I do volunteer work and most volunteers are women. Lots of women there, both the other volunteers and women who come by for help.

Or if you are really low on spare time, try salsa or ballroom dancing. It takes just an hour every week. You get to talk to each woman you dance with right away very handy. When you level up to silver after one season, there is a huge lack of guys, they hire in guys to dance who are mostly gay, so you can pick any girl as your partner, swap partners around any week whatever.
 
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